or is that important? because i love her but i just dont know what to do. She also didnt exactly tell me, she put it in latin on her myspace and im guessing that it was directed towards me.
2006-10-01 09:14:46 · 15 answers · asked by erick s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure this is love and not lust. love is more loving the person no matter what their flaws and there mistakes, love is working out problems no matter how deep they will get. some people dont fall in love for months or even years of being with the person. some want to rush it and say the L word but really wont find the meaning till later. contiue with this relationship and see if the feelings for one another will continue to grow if so than you will know its worth it, but take things slow and see where it will end up. Let her know that you will wait for her to be honest with you about saying the L word and that you want her to say it whens she is ready and meaning it. as well it goes for you. When your in love you will know, its hard to explain but you will know.
2006-10-01 09:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Answer to first question: Negative, kiddo. Don't waste your time and $. on this one. Go back out there. Also, try not to buy all the lovey dovey sweetie crap that you are gonna get from some people. This is the real world, not the Enchanted Forest By the way, you know damn well what she meant, so make us guys proud, and go find a girl who can love you as well, OK ? Girls can be cold and selfish, but it's not thier fault. It's thier nature.( Ah, no offense ladies) I am proud of the men and women who have answered this ques before me, by God, so we know you can write, now show us that you can read, too! You girls rock? Kick *** and take names! -- Rat PS -- If you are talking about your Mom, never mind.
2006-10-01 16:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Raptor 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her...don't guess!
If that is really the way she feels, then you must accept that fact, and decide if you and she want to keep the relationship alive or move on. Love is a ***** because the whole thing is so precarious! Love, or lust? infatuation or love?
In many parts of the world and in different cultures love has nothing to do with it. Marriages are made for other reasons, and often the two people involved come to love each other in time, much to their surprise, so it can, and has worked for millennium. Only in the western world is so much emphasis placed on the 'love' part of the equation. There are many more factors to consider.
2006-10-01 16:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by The Oldest Man In The World 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She must be one of those people that's in love with the feeling of being in love. She likes the giddy feelings, thinking of her man all the time, butterflies in her stomach..etc...She thinks that those feelings is what she needs to feel love and she is wrong. It's what a person does after those feelings wear-off that distinguishes love and respect for a person. dump her and move on.
2006-10-01 16:18:46 · answer #4 · answered by Lesleann 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would move on...There is a big difference when someone says they love you but are not "in love with you"....We all have people that we care about and/or love....but "being in love"...is very special between two people...and by the sounds of it...it doesn't sound like she is "in love you". It is clearly two different feelings (emotions)...
2006-10-01 19:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think it would be good for you or her to stay together you love her and i know its hard but you staying is not going to make her love you again i say you should move on with your life and be friends and if more comes from it then that would be the best but if not then you tried and its time to move on
2006-10-01 16:20:58 · answer #6 · answered by bonnie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only if you're happy with a person who admits they aren't in love with you. If that's the best you can do, then I suppose you don't think you're worth more.
PS ASK if it was directed at you.
2006-10-01 16:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Move on, because if she isnt in love with you, then its not there and will never develop. Find someone that will fall in love with you.
2006-10-01 16:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by julez 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, this is just a wimps way of breaking up with you. She's trying to spare your feelings, but if you don't move on first, she will, and that will break your heart more than it is now.
2006-10-01 16:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by flumoxed 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first you told me that she wants you to talk to her ex. Now youre thinking that she doesnt like you anymore. Well dont jump to conclusions man.
2006-10-01 16:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋