As i grew up,I been reserved,or bold even too honest.The question is:( do you think its more attractive to have forward,straightforward type of guy who know he wants what you got and will take it...OR the more flirty type who will hint and leave mystery.)
off the subject girls you are all special and i have to be mean sometimes to avoid falling for all the pretty ones.im finding that more of you have minds than guys admit.
2006-10-01 09:01:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having some mystery is great but I also need to be put in my place sometimes. Let me explain: I know I can be a brat and I honestly appreciate it when someone just tells me to shut up and to stop acting like an 8 year old. For instance, if I get frustrated in an argument, I may say something completely disrespectful and uncalled for. (Hey, I'm human and I'm guessing everyone has done that before.) But when I do this, I need a guy who won't let me get away with it cause then I'll do it again and just keep hurting him. I need them to tell me to shut up and to not over-step my boundaries. This is what I respect the most in a partner. So as far as you being bold or too honest like you say....WOMEN like that and respect that. But know that there is a difference between being rude or mean and being honest. You still have to take into consideration the fact that feelings can be hurt and you never should hurt the one you love.
Also, the mystery part that you ask of...I don't need to know every thought and feeling that goes through your head and I don't need to know what you did all day every day... The mystery part of anyone is the fact that there are unknowns, know what I mean? Spontinaeity is also fun...like when a guy tells me to dress up for a night out and then takes me to Chuckie Cheese's...its just fun.
P.S. We've always known we're smart...it just takes guys a while to figure it out.....
2006-10-01 09:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Plain Jane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on WHO YOU ARE. If you arent a bold, straight forward person normally, then dont force it upon yourself to impress a girl. She'll sense the falsness. Same goes if you arent the flirty type. Girls will be able to pick up on whether or not you are being YOU.
As a personal choice, though, the straightforward guys I find intimidating. The more flirty, mysterious ones are the ones I usually feel comfortable with.
2006-10-01 09:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't like the flirty types, they are too often players. I like an honest, straightforward guy (not honest to the point of cruelty, though). Everybody plays too many games in the dating game, so it's a relief to have a man be who he is and straight with what he wants. A woman may be taken aback at first, because she isn't used to it, but will like it. But with honesty, remember to not be crude - there is a difference....
2006-10-01 09:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 02:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by aneshansley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want a guy who is flirty fun and mysterious but also can be staight forward and know that in the end i will always love him the questiion is: is there som1 out there like that
2006-10-01 09:07:53 · answer #5 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer guys to have a little fowardness so i know where i stand, too much though is over powering and puts me off them. and theres nothing that beats flirting, it makes you feel great. a little mystery is nice but again too much and you dont know where you stand.
so a little forwardness, loads of flirting and a little mystery!
2006-10-01 09:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by Happyworms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would go for the first one ,because i think that dating the flirty ones would be horrible.you never know they migth dump the next day for a girl who's more attractive
2006-10-01 09:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i like the mystery. all guys "know what the want" but it keeps things interesting if you don't put it all on the line. let it simmer a little bit.
2006-10-01 09:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, we are all a bunch of brainiacs that is sooo true! Well, let me see here be straight forward and honest that is the ****!
2006-10-01 10:22:25 · answer #9 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirty is fun...for awhile, but when it comes down to it, girls want to know what you're thinking, that way they don't waste their time on a guy who isn't really interested in them.
2006-10-01 09:05:02 · answer #10 · answered by Starwyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋