2006-10-01 09:01:27 · 19 answers · asked by buzz 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Move up the wedding or delay it. As long as you are getting married I don't see what your partner is going to have an issue but the sooner you tell him the better.
2006-10-01 09:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I would bear in mind that the delivery date is only an estimate and your baby could arrive up to two weeks either way. I found out I was pregnant a couple of weeks after I booked my wedding and I already had a five month old baby. In the end I decided to go ahead with the wedding and got married at 34 weeks pregnant. This was fine for me as I never wanted a big wedding anyway, so it was a good excuse not to have one. One thing I would bear in mind is although it may be stressful and tiring arranging a wedding when you are pregnant, it may not be any easier when you have a baby to look after and your finances may also be stretched. However it is your body and your decision and nobody should tell you otherwise.
2006-10-02 06:40:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him! Probably best to start considering altering your wedding date as the little nippers don't always arrive when you expect them!
There can be a fair amount of stress in planning a wedding which may mean it's better to delay this until after you give birth? Do you have people around who could help you get things together for the wedding once your baby is born and a few months old?
I think it's kind of sweet when people's kiddies are at their weddings. It'll make for a lovely family photo album!
2006-10-01 16:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by kpbunches 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EDD (Expected Date of Delivery) is just an approximation and only in 10% cases they come in exact time. However, your baby should be more important than wedding. Having said that, discuss with your partner whether you wanna get married before or after...the choice is yours'...But as a new dad..I would recommend get wed after you receive the precious gift..this will ensure you and your unborn baby is without stress and sound.
2006-10-01 17:57:10 · answer #4 · answered by Topu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not wait to tell him the truth. Waiting and prolonging will only start a marrige off on the basis of lies. You may think "I will wait till the right time" or maybe you will think of some great story later but I promise you will regret it. If he is going to be mad or unaccepting-it will only heighten the negative emotion if he has had the truth withheld for a period of time - And you had knowledge of it and kept it from him. Besides He Has A Right To Know and Make Decisions. Just go to him and don't sugar coat it and stick to the facts, and what will be - will be. But It Will Be Honest And Truth. Good Luck To You
2006-10-01 16:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sapphire M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there isnt alot you can do about it, im getting married next year and sort of worried about this dilema, the only thing you can do is set the wedding for the next year it you have left depsosits for most things then it should be ok as you can just change the date. But if you have got your dress you may have to get a new one as you wont beable to get in the one now. It all happens for a reason and you are lucky in a way.
Its not all your fault its half as much your parteners as yours. Just tell him and if he goes off on one, then tell him its his fault as well. and its tough if he doesnt like it.
2006-10-01 16:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would let him know you're pregnant, and then mention that you might want to move the date up (or back, whichever you agree upon). You might not want to make any firm plans until you've had your first ultrasound, because they might give you a different, more accurate due date, but I would schedule the wedding for either 2 months before or after so you're not overwhelmed.
2006-10-01 16:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Emily O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you do tel him he will be over the moon, (if u planned on kids) u can get married after i had an opparation 3 weeks before mine and i was swollen like i am now, iv just had a baby and it was still one of the best days of my life.
2006-10-04 08:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately tell him. I got married after my baby was 7months so was really too young to come to the wedding but came to reception with my close friend. was lovely wedding but missed my little girl couldnt wait til reception so my friend could bring her. We took her on honeymoon too!! would rather have got married when baby was about 2yrs so she could have been our bridesmaid. or the other end of the scale bring the wedding well forward if financially can do it. good luck in what you decide im sure your wedding and birth of your baby will both be wonderful.
2006-10-01 16:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push your wedding back until after the baby is born or push it ahead a few weeks. I'm sure your partner will understand.
2006-10-01 16:11:28 · answer #10 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋