What does it mean if your man keeps taking you where his ex hangs out? I tell him I don't want to really be there, but he insists.... Does he still have feelings for her or am I just a show-pony? And if he wants to go there to show me off to her, doesn't that mean that he has feelings? How frustrating...
2006-10-01 08:58:34 · 17 answers · asked by Plain Jane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. He stares at her a lot too when we're there... I constantly have to do things to keep his attention....
2006-10-01 09:38:51 · update #1
u know what he's taking u with him while he's stalking her-------open your eyes break up with him and see if he seems to show up where u hang out----If no then its not you that he wants sweetie -------if yes then he's missing his steak out partner either way he's not respecting u.....yes he still has feelings for this lady..........suggest a nice place that would be special to u and he and if he objects he's not the man 4 u.....(trouble) especiall when there are 2 sides 2 every story.......try to find out from mutual friends why the broke up..............you'll be surprised i gurantee it GET UR DONE1111111111
2006-10-01 09:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't like that crap a bit! He has no business taking you somewhere you don't want to go in the first place!
And from the sounds of it I would say he probably does have feelings still. Like you said, either way you look at it he is showing he still has something for her.
Don't let him do that to you. Tell him you don't need his shiit and if it doesn't stop, you don't want to see him anymore.
2006-10-01 16:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse, point blank. Tell him you'll come back when he's over her. It's probably that he wants to show her how happy he is with you. Even so, it definately means he's not over her, and won't be for a long time. It may hurt, but he is treating you as a rebound. Either refuse to go, if he doesn't like it, tough, tell him to go alone. Or dump him. He should be respecting you now.
2006-10-01 16:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by flumoxed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has some past relationship issues either he still cares about this woman or he wants to relive the moment in that place where the two of them used to hang out.
2006-10-01 16:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by meka9374 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is not your man. It means he doesn't think about your feelings. It means he's trying to make he jealous and has no real feelings for you. If you're smart, it probably is what you've already felt but don't want to admit!
Good luck!
2006-10-01 16:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, regardless of why he's doing it, he knows it makes you uncomfortable and he's still doing it so you should get rid of him. As for reasons, he's probably trying to make her jealous, whether it's because he's not over her yet or just wants to stick it to her. Really... dump him.
2006-10-01 17:02:38 · answer #6 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he still likes his ex coz he wants to relive the moment of being wit her by taking you to the same place.
2006-10-01 16:00:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be thinking the same way you are... why can't you two find a favorite place... and whether you are a show pony or he needs you along so he can see her... you have to put a stop to it...
2006-10-01 16:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he still has feelings for his ex.
2006-10-01 16:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by karinaxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answered your own question...yes he still has feelings for her or he would not be trying to take you where she hangs out whether to show you off or otherwise
2006-10-01 16:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋