My best friend in the world is also an atheist and he's had three or four serious relationships in his life w/ girls that were christian. Although when it comes to me I lost two relationships bc of this simple fact. I have respect of what people believe in and I don't judge. I just cannot understand why this is a problem for women I date and it's been a non-issue for my friend. Is these ladies just using this has an excuse not to be serious w/ me. Even if we were sexual. what do you guys think?
2006-10-01 08:54:32 · 8 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it's not going to work cause the girls that are a Christan don't won't to be around somebody that don't believe in a God that means you are not a true man that can be trusted and you are condemned to hell and there are others that believe the way you believe why not pursue that or is your mission is to brainwash the girls into the way you believe that want happen if they are strong in the Lord.
2006-10-01 09:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm just gonna guess that you might be too vocal about your beliefs. And that you might be scaring them off because of it. The only time religion, or lack of it, might come into play is when you plan on getting married, or in a really long term relationship. And then only if you have such a difference of beliefs that it causes problems between the two of you.
2006-10-01 16:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people take their religion very seriously. A lot of religious girls are looking for someone that they can share their religion with. Maybe things would be easier, if you stuck with an Atheist girl.
2006-10-01 15:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by hotchickhazeleyed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this might be a problem is she is grounded in her religion. Be honest with her when the subject comes up and it will. If it is a problem, then deal with it and then you will know. Personally, I think it will not work. I am sorry.
2006-10-01 16:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Ness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be wise for you to ask girls upfront if they have a problem with your beliefs if you know they are religious. If they have a problem, they should be able to be honest with you.
Good luck!
2006-10-01 16:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some girls HATE atheists and i dont know y. if u really care for someone then relion or non relion shouldnt be an issue. some ppl can be VERY hard headed with this subject. its y i cant really friend a bf. im atheist but they just shoun me.
2006-10-01 16:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by rurouni_kikyo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well lets see. as long as religion doest come up or either of you try to force their beliefs on the other then it should work just fine, until you have kids...then thats another question...
2006-10-01 16:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she wasn't one of those religious whackos, have fun and good luck.
2006-10-01 15:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋