I'm currently dating this guy and after a couple of weeks I finally gave the goods up and now he's telling me he loves me. Only after 2 times of great sex... can great sex trigger a mans feelings?
2006-10-01 08:53:27 · 14 answers · asked by Sexy PuertoRican Lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boy wants to continue the relationship because of the obvious benefits. After only a couple of weeks, I don't think he loves YOU yet, but he does love what you're giving him. He probably said that so you'd continue to give it up. I really doubt that he knows what the words "I Love You" mean yet.
2006-10-01 09:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"Love" is not an absolute state.
Generally, guys are not as aware of their own deepest feelings as women are
(there are exceptions) - consequently, he probably doesn't really know what he
is feeling, other than that it is good and it seems to be related to you ;)
Good sex is good - but you still need to get to know him, and he needs to really
get to know you - before you should start thinking of any sort of major
commitment (marriage, children, mortgage).
If he still thinks you walk on water - or at least is still interested in seeing
you try in a few months, then maybe it has a chance of lasting.
2006-10-01 15:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't! Love doesn't come from the body. Love comes from the heart. You sound young and don't know this yet. You may be able to 'capture' the body. For a while. A real mate comes only from the heart.
2006-10-01 15:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Freesumpin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex can only cloud your mind on the subject of love. Everybody wants to label any euphoric feeling as love. Love is wanting to see that person happy reguardless if it makes you happy. Test it out. Put him in a situation and see if he chooses his happiness over yours.
2006-10-01 15:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he started saying he loves you after the 2 times you two were intimate, then he just probably wants more. If he loves you, he would have said that before you two were intimate.
2006-10-01 16:04:59 · answer #5 · answered by OnThe36th 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you ? Sex and love are 2 polar opposites .
2006-10-01 16:27:33 · answer #6 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person.
2006-10-01 15:57:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes all men would say they love you during sex, but does he rally?
2006-10-01 17:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No - sex has no affect on guys - we dont even like it.
2006-10-01 15:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he is running game on you. dont fall for it.
2006-10-01 17:49:53 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋