Just be a woman, and be straight up with him.
2006-10-01 08:54:01
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Be honest with him from now.. the longer you leave it hunni, the more he will get hurt.
Give him a call and explain that your feeling a little sufficated by his attention and you think his a great man but right now your not looking to be in a relationship of any sort and dont want to hurt him. That way hopefully he wont take it to personal.. Good luck hun..
2006-10-01 16:30:04
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answered by Baby Dee 2
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There is no good way to tell a guy this and most of the time even if you do they still think that if you so much as smile at them that they are in with a chance anyway. Just breathe deep and be brutal it's the only sane way to go.
2006-10-01 16:05:29
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answered by Queen D 3
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Tell him specifically that you like him, but not in a way that would lead to a romantic relationship. You need to say so in person, in a neutral but private place ie. over coffee etc.
Then, you're not responsible for his feelings. All you need to do is be consistent, because you'll hurt his feelings if you use him as your "backup" date etc.
Alternately, you can always hook him up with someone else who might like him better, to help him leave you alone.
Besides, you never know, he might already have accepted it and moved on.
Good luck~!
2006-10-01 16:02:07
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answered by angelblue112 2
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you cant. second guess another persons reactions to these things. some guys get hurt, some get mad, and some just accept it and move on realizing there are alot of fish in the sea. so it becomes an issue of more your feelings. just be honest and get it over with. honesty is always the best answer.
2006-10-01 15:56:20
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answered by mrbill1141 1
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You have to be truthful and tell him you just want frienship or it could get really tricky and end up in a horrible, embarrasing situation. If it's not gone too far yet, then his pain will be minimal. More like hurt pride.
2006-10-01 15:58:44
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answered by helen p 4
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sounds like a problem i wonce had over the summer. there was aguy that likeed stalked me cuz i never told it to him strait so it just kept getting worse so one day i had to flat out tell him he has to back off a little...sure his feelings were hurt but it was better sooner than later so he wasnt completly led on....so just dont lead him on any farther and let him know online or ignore his flirty comments or whatever
2006-10-01 15:56:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi well if you have already told him then im affraid there isnt out else you can do, no one can change a persons feelings. If he feels strongly about you maybe no contact with him would be good. He will find someone else and forget about you.
2006-10-01 16:00:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Dont tell him he's a great guy blah blah and tell him you wanna be friends with him, he still might think he's got a chance and keep trying. If you wanna just be friends then make it clear thats all its ever going to be.
2006-10-01 16:20:23
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answered by Simondo 2
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you have been nice to him by saying that you dont want anything serious....if he cannot accept that then you need to cut yourself off from him permanently, i think he should get the message, but be honest with him, tell him you like him but no enough to continue as a relationship
2006-10-01 15:58:44
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answered by Anonymous
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I always find that honesty is the best policy. You've just got to tell him staright that you enjoy his friendship, but things couldn't ever develop into anything more. Good Luck :)
2006-10-01 15:55:24
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answered by ♥ Nicola ♥ 3
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