i love them both ??
2006-10-01 08:36:28 · 25 answers · asked by meme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
haha story of my life....im da sis who hates my sister's bf....does it ever occur to u maybe jus maybe ur sister just wants attention frm u? spend time wit her more!! she mite be feeling all ur time iz on ur bf and less on her!! besides should it really matter wut ur sis thinks? haha w0w i cant believe im saying these things lol....
2006-10-01 08:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to both of them separately at first, and find out why they hate each other. Then bring them together, by taking them to dinner at a really nice place or something, so they can't argue, and can only talk calmly, explain how their hate for each other makes you feel uncomfortable. If they both care about you they'll work it out on your behalf.
2006-10-01 08:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
divide your time between the two of them and try to avoid situations where the two of them are together. But remember, blood is thicker than water. Be kind to your sister. Boyfriends come and go, but your sister is your sister for life.
2006-10-01 08:38:57 · answer #3 · answered by mimi22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be the mediator. You want to keep them both in your life so tell them that. Tell your boyfriend that you love him and want to be with him but your sister is your sister and you dont want to lose her. Tell her the same, if they care for you they will compromise.
2006-10-01 09:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all... neither has to like the other... they have the option to stay out of each others way. make it clear.. you will not tolerate..back stabbing by either one. most of all remember... the saying ..there is a thin line between love and hate. those two could end of having a thing for each other. so keep your eyes open. you do not have to give up either one.
2006-10-01 08:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask you sister openly and honestly why she hates him. Then keep your eyes wide open. Sometimes sisters see many things that you do not.
2006-10-01 08:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to the bottom of the situation. Maybe they are jealous of each other because they think that you spend more time w/ the other and they just want more of you. Talk it out or you will just be miserable.
2006-10-01 08:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing-if you are young and not going to marry this person then just let it go-no need to force the issue. Also family comes 1st unless you are commited to getting married and starting your own family.
2006-10-01 08:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate is a big form of attention, be careful, they may fall in love!
2006-10-01 08:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont invite him to family functions all i can say i hated my girlfriends sister for a while but i gre to like her and now i catchmyself refering to her asn my "sister" on occasion so maybe you sheould mediate and find out why they hate eachother. otherwise just keep him awya from family functions
2006-10-01 08:38:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is jealous of you and your boyfriend, spend time with her and make sure that there is plenty of you and her time, and that you don't make her feel like a third wheel when all of you are together.
2006-10-01 08:38:22 · answer #11 · answered by samanny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋