I'm almost done with my divorce and been with my husband for seven years. I have not done this in awhile, and just wandering how do I get myself back in the dating sceene. I don't want to find men in bars. I tried the on line, but the good ones seem to live out of state, or people online really are not serious. What should I do? I'm a pretty 27 year old, and don't understand why this is so hard.
2006-10-01 08:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by Evie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try a singles group,,,,, or church is always good,,,,,, also through friends.
2006-10-01 08:29:25 · answer #1 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there ....for me was six years. It is really hard. We had no kids but we had a dog, it was harder leaving the dog. Maybe you shouldn't focus too much on meeting some new right away. If it happens all the better. You just spent 7 years of dedication to someone and it did not work out. You should focus more on you. Things that are positive in your life. A man will come around when your not looking. Do the things you haven't done being tied down. POSITIVE things. Don't do things to go wild. That is just a temporarily solution.
2006-10-01 15:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by jovy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to enjoy your life and do all the things that you didn't do when you were with your husband and you will meet lots of new people on the way. The more you look for a man the harder to find one, go to new places and make new friends. True love will be found when you least expect it!! good luck searching, make sure it's lots of fun.
2006-10-01 15:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by JUEc27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mengal a little before you get tied down again try making convorsation with the hot guy in the coffe shop or that cutie but shy guy at work.....put your self out there an your bound to find a nice un married man an anouther good idea is getting a friend to hook you up with a decinte guy....good luck sorry bout your divorce
2006-10-01 15:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will be the same as it was 8 years ago except everyone will be eight years older, wiser, more cynical, and have a couple of kids from the first marriage.
2006-10-01 15:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first enjoy yourself with getting to know yourself i was out the game for 12 years and found out that the same thing was still out there just be more careful about who u pick up in the grocery store and the on line thing isn't for everyone just be patient it'll come soon enough
2006-10-01 15:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to get back on the dating scene but you have to go out and i always find that if you relax and dont go out with the intention of meeting someone then you probably will good luck and i hope you find that someone wherever they are. love light and peace to you
2006-10-01 15:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Edward B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't learn the first time huh? nothing will last without god.. find a man who knows or servers god... or your just going to repeat just like your first marriage, get a strong dose of misery... get right with god first, then the man (dating) wouldn't be some hard, and you wouldn't be so Blind.
2006-10-01 15:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by aware 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out the house more.Men will see you and talk to you no matter where your going or doing.
2006-10-01 15:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know its hard to learn to trust someone again.... just dont rush into anything
2006-10-01 15:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by lindsay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋