I HEAR OF PEOPLE DOING THIS AND I WONDER IF IT IS THE NORM. I PERSONALLY WOULD NOT GET UP AND MOVE BUT I HAVE TO MUCH TO GIVE UP BY DOING THAT. I DO WONDER THOUGH IF SOMEONE I MET ONLINE WOULD MAKE THAT LEAP OF FAITH.
2006-10-01 08:24:17 · 33 answers · asked by mrbill1141 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me no. but many people do find love via on-line. before picking up and moving though people should heed caution because some people are not whom they claim to be on-line. The Internet can be a great tool but also serve as a cloak of anonymity for people to become someone that they want to be but not their true selves. I think that it is important in any relationship on-line or not to look very carefully before you leap.
2006-10-01 08:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would if i new the person and i were going to be together and had a place to stay i have a lot to give up here.
lets not talk about finding a job, the place you may want to go may be employment depressed.
therefore in most cases you would have to move there to find a job.
now if i did not have a job there and a place to sleep, that would be risky.
that is like imement financial melt down and homelessness all wrapped up into one mess. ouch!!!
now if there was a place to stay. ok cause that relieves the stress of not having a place to live which is huge.
as for a job i would go where i could get a job and start from there. as long as i knew the woman was 100 percent behind me on this.
then i would take the effort.
there is a difference between sacrifice and stupidity if you dont know if someones support is speculative.
so ya i would do it, but the support needs to be there.
they would need to get over themselves and communicate this clearly.
2006-10-01 09:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the person and how much they like that other person they met online. I would never move from where I am( I love it ) unless it was for something huge. It is normal. It also depends on the relationship to make a big move.
2006-10-01 08:26:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is always a gamble. You might stay at one place, find someone you love and live happily ever after. Or start getting annoyed with each other in six months, hate each other in a year and get divorced in two. And always think of what would have happened had you followed your instinct and leapt into the unknown - and realized that you finally found yourself at home...
So, the answer is - yes. Our barriers are not the countries or languages but rather mind and spirit.
2006-10-01 08:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by oksana_rossi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I might visit that city to meet them in a very public place to see if they are worth dating or something. Then I would spend time dating them, visiting them, spending time with them, and then possibly after a year or more, consider moving there if all was still going well.
2006-10-01 08:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend and I met online 6 months ago. We are getting engaed soon now. I will eventually move to live with him. I am moving to another city because I love him. It doesn't matter how I met him. What matters is what he means to me.
2006-10-01 08:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Princess of Egypt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, i think of it rather is a scam. If she legitimately cherished you, she would not care no count if or not you signed up for her website. She fairly would not be making use of signing up for her website as a topic to circulate out to dinner with you, or supply you her cellular extensive type or have intercourse with you. in simple terms the undeniable fact that she's doing it is suspect.
2016-10-15 10:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO thats the stupidest thing ive ever heard of unless youve already met this person and decide it was ment to be and you get married
2006-10-01 08:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I wouldn't because I have kids and that's just something I wouldn't do. If it were only me I'd probably go to another state to visit but not just up and move. I'm not completely insane!
2006-10-01 08:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, if I met them and we felt that strongly for each other.
I'm single and living (semi-close) but away from all family....have a job...........but could easily get another one somewhere else...
I've moved enuff to know...........what it takes to
"git er dun".....
......it would depend on the "certain" person and our feelings for each other, I wouldn't "move" just to get close to him... without HIm already caring for me.
2006-10-01 08:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by Uwanna Kissimmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋