Just because I love a man and have sex with him ,now it's official, got pregnant?People hate me.My mother says that I'm a little slut and he's a criminal.Is love such a sin
2006-10-01 08:22:13 · 18 answers · asked by Jazz 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
16 very soon.
2006-10-01 08:27:27 · update #1
Yes.I know it's statutory rape,I know we are in trouble.But am I a sinner
2006-10-01 08:30:52 · update #2
No, you aren't a sinner.
You just display an astonishing lack of insight and common sense.
2006-10-03 11:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The concept of "sin" and "sinners" is an obsolete social construct that is passing away even as we discuss it. You are not a sinner and there is no such thing as sin.
You should be concerned about the future of your unborn child. The most sensible thing might be to abort your pregnancy if you can. The people who will tell you you are "killing your baby" are mentally ill and need to be placed behind barbed wire and barred windows. Abortion is a rational solution if medical factors and your own choice find it so.
If you want to have the baby, it is entirely up to you. But you should turn your attention now to the best possible care for you as a new mother and for your baby. See your local Department of Social Services. If your family are reluctant to help you, other arrangements can be made.
Finally, about the so-called "man" you love. If you are a schoolkid and he is 18 or older, he is guilty of the crime of statutory rape, and he should, and probably will, do some time in prison. He is not "the love of your life," no matter how much it may look like it now. Your emotions are playing tricks on you. You have been had, and the man who did it is a criminal. Even if you don't want him to be.
If the law gets hold of him, your feelings won't matter. Up the river he will go.
Your DSS caseworker can also help you deal with these feelings, and with many other aspects of the difficult time you face. I wish you the best. Just keep looking for the people who will understand. You may find them where you least expect to.
2006-10-01 15:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by aviophage 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may love that man now but what about later? Let's get to your question. What people? Who hates you? If those people you are talking about think that they are so high and mighty you can laugh when they fall off that big trip they are on. Look we are all sinner's everyone is , the thing is ask for forgiveness and mean it you should go and talk to your pastor. Get to a place where you feel safe. Your mom needs to get right with the lord. one thing to keep in mind set it and forget it. Please contact my pastor he can help, it's at my space. here it is friend www.myspace.com/pastorhansen it will come up a green screen and scroll down some and look to the left of the screen go to email this person, he will write you back within that day. No love is not a sin, just out of marriage. Remember we are all sinner's.
2006-10-01 17:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by nieceofmissourifats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you believe in God, then yes, you are a sinner. And you will be sentenced to hell forever. You better pray for forgiveness otherwise, your child will go to Heaven when it dies and you will be stuck in Hell forever! And you won't get to be together in the afterlife!
hehe j/k
NO! You are not a sinner. God isn't real, so it really doesn't matter. You made a huge mistake though. I hope this guy has got enough money to pay you child support every month.
Good luck to ya!
2006-10-01 15:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Whatever 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Yes, Hun, you are a sinner, but then, so are all of us. The thing is to give it to God, and let Him forgive you, and help you to decide where to go from here.
You didn't say how old you are, but "statutory rape" would seem to indicate that you are just a kid yourself. Your parents are upset, because they know how much of your life is involved in raising a kid (obviously, since they are trying to raise you)...and they are probably hurt because they had high hopes for you.
There is a great deal more to "love" than having sex with someone. Going to bed with someone is easy...getting up with that person, every morning, morning after morning...facing dirty floors, dirty dishes, dirty diapers, electric bills, water bills, grocery bills...going to work, taking care of the kids....it's not easy, kiddo. And "love" has very little to do with it.
Are you really ready to enter that adult world? Once you're in it, there is no way out......
2006-10-01 15:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by David T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon, if you are still a kid, under the legal age of an adult, even if you gave your consent to have sex with this man, it's called Statatory Rape. And he, I'm guessing is older and an adult, should know to say no. Love isn't a sin, but this is wrong. I've looked at some of your pass questions, and you're still a kid in school.
2006-10-01 15:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by sister steph 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
It would help if we knew your age, because he may be in trouble with the laws of this land.
Also sex, before marriage is one, there are many, contributing factors to the epidemic of unwed mothers in this country.
Love isn't a sin, but sex isn't necessarily love.
I wish you the best.
As far as your question;
That's between you and God not you and anyone here on Y/A.
2006-10-01 15:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by drg5609 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HOW OLD ARE YOU !!??
Additional Response: Are You A Sinner ?
You are a child who has behaved foolishly. He is a man who behaved criminally ! That's not to say you haven't sinned, but he's the Adult, you might think you are an Adult, YOUR NOT ! YOU ARE A FOOLISH LITTLE GIRL ! Yes you sinned, now repent, and begin living for Jesus Christ, and raising your Child, it will not be easy !
I am sorry that your family has been disrupted, and it is going to be very hard for you. You must give your life to Jesus, and repent of sin. Stay away from this perverted man, if he's not in jail, he should be.
2006-10-01 15:24:39 · answer #8 · answered by Minister 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Sweetheart we all are sinners, all of us. Even those trying to live right cannot control impure thoughts and sometimes even blatant open sin. So yes you are a sinner just like all the rest of us and need Christ as your savior as He is the only source for you to find forgiveness of your sin. Seek Him and He will guide you in the proper direction.
2006-10-01 15:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Prophecy+History=TRUTH 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Every one of us is a sinner. These things aside, and even if you had not done them, you'd still be a sinner as would we all. There's no way around it.
I would encourage you to turn to Jesus if you have not already. He will help you through this and it will get your child off to a good start, as well.
2006-10-01 15:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋