Ok so there's this guy I like at my school. His locker's in front of my Science class...so I see him after class there. I usually say Hi, or he does. Friday though..I decided to go stop and chat for a couple of minutes though..which went better than I had expected. It's just that I really like him and I'm not sure if this is enough to.."subtly" let him know I like him. Ya see, I'm shy..so what I'm doing now has sorta surprised me..I usually never ever would've thought about that..I'd have just chickened out lol..I know it sounds stupid..but that's just how I am for some reason and I hate it. Is what I'm doing now enough..or should I also do something else? If so..what?!?
Thanks =D
2006-10-01 07:42:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've had conversations with him before...
2006-10-01 07:49:31 · update #1
either this guy likes you too, or he likes the attention, which could mean he likes you. keep talking to him and tell me what happens :-D
2006-10-01 07:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by deenab123 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep up the conversation, but try to move it to a quieter and more relaxing time and place. Maybe meet in the library or lunch room. Or outside of school, if possible. And if not on the school grounds, what about the neighborhood coffee shop or fast food joint?
If he agrees, you enjoy these benefits: a) By meeting with you, he shows that he's interested in and worth going out of the way for you; b) You have more time to focus on longer, more involved chats by which you can determine if he's the right "type" and is made of the stuff that really interests you for a long-term relationship; c) Your wishes turn into realized dreams . . .
Don't be "subtle." You have nothing to lose, everything to gain.
Good luck!
2006-10-01 15:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by alchemist0750 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Try having a conversation with him. How is he supposed to know that you are interested in him if all you ever say is "hi" to eachother. If you talk to him, actually engaging in a conversation, you will let him know that you are interested in a friendship. Then, it is up to him to decide whether he likes you more as a friend or as a girlfriend. Also one question. How do you know that you like him if you don't know anything about him and never have had a conversation with you? Is it just lust?
2006-10-01 14:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u shud buck up a lil.try n get in2 a larger conversation not a boring 1. give him hints-make eye contacts etc.
2006-10-01 15:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by jasmine143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh boy, I would love if somebody tells me what CHICKNED OUT means. I love to learn these new words for my sts, I am NOT a native speaker, thanks a lot and you girl, whatever you have done to call his attention that's ok, since you don't hurt other people's feelings or step on other people's heart. Good luck.
2006-10-01 14:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you're on the right track and are learning how much to "adjust your volume," so to speak.
Terrible advice by aRely, IMHO.
2006-10-01 14:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep on talking to him whenever you get the chance. He'll get the hint.
2006-10-01 14:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by mopjky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
how about this??? tell him you like him...you can't go through life waiting for other people to take the first step b/c you might end up wondering what if?
2006-10-01 14:46:26 · answer #8 · answered by aReLy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should just find a way to build up confidence and ask him or ask me
2006-10-01 15:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by V. A. K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep talking to him...dont do anything else, and its great to talk to him some girls cant evn do that! talking to him is enough rite now, so lets see wut happens next!
2006-10-01 14:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋