So I finally broke my ex boyfriends heart, all because i though i knew what was best in the end.All the fighting and disagreements and him making me depressed everynight ever since we broke up. Yet every time we fought before I told him that i still loved him and i didnt break up with him them, till one fight when i acctually couldnt take it anymore and i finally told him that it was over because i couldnt do it anymore, and yet we loved eachother so much, and we've been threw so many things together. . ( 5 months together) and i threw it all away just because i couldnt realize that, thats what a realtionship is. Its been 6 weeks now and im going out with another guy yet i feel like my ex bf is pulling me down. .because im feeling bad about what i did. Now im so confused because im going out with this new guy who really does like me. .yet my ex bf is in my head. what to do?
2006-10-01 07:38:42 · 5 answers · asked by till_deathdowepart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did exactly the right thing. Give it some time. It sounds like you guys were miserable together, yet there was some attraction. But misery is nothing to live with. Your new BF may not be the right person for you, but let him be a distraction for now. In love, you need to make sure you're looking after yourself. Only then, when it is right for you, can you make the kind of committment that means anything.
2006-10-01 07:42:16 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you jumped into a new relationship too quickly.
but then 5 months with the ex wasn't along time either!!
If you made the choice to move on, then do so. No sence in the thought of him bringing you down!
You'll get over it. You have to............if your involved with someone new. Never bring baggage into a new relationship.
2006-10-01 14:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt really read all this question but end the end all you have is you so look out for your self you know whats best for you
2006-10-01 15:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he was cuasing u more grief than happiness and that is what its all about i wish u the best
2006-10-01 14:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ocourse he is on your mind you loved him i no what your going threw....talk to him about how you feel it will help bye bye =)
2006-10-01 14:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋