I have four sons, 16,14,13 & 7. Everyone gets along normaly except fot the oldest (16) and the youngest (7) I know that brothers fight but with the age difference it just seems so ridiculous. and the fighting is ENDLESS! Anyone in or has been in a similar situation??
2006-10-01 07:32:53 · 8 answers · asked by momof3boys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my oldest is 17 and youngest 5 they fight too..the kids in the middle fight not so severe....the reasoning I got when I asked my 17 yo is really quite odd to hear from him he was the baby then all the other five came and the 5 yr old is the baby forever no more babies...try doing a special time a month for one on one time with them all ..we do it on their birthday day and they make all the plans for extra stuff that day ..food...activities etc once a month
2006-10-01 08:04:08 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother is 8 years older than me, and we used to fight CONSTANTLY. It drove my mother crazy, and to this day, I can't tell you why we fought, but let me tell you, it was never ending. He went into the Marine Corps right after he graduated highschool, and I think it took that seperation, and the time that I had in between to grow the heck up some, before we could even try to be friends. Now, however, we're the best of friends, and we look back at all of the stupid fights we had and laugh. Good luck!
2006-10-01 08:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 13 years older than my youngest Brother, and we still fight at times, I think because he is so immature and we have such different views on things. I like to think reasonably, and maturely, he thinks off the wall. It's just the age difference. It's not so bad now, even though he is still kind of careless in some areas, and I always feel the obligation to guide him. It gets better though.
2006-10-01 07:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is undesirable, undesirable, undesirable information. i'm not judging you. it is purely a actuality. i'm 23 and only the assumption-approximately a 14 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old is sickening. i understand you think of you're "in love" yet real now you're on your top time for raging hormones. each and every little thing feels "new" and "magnificent" and then a 2d later it is all became the different way up. you may get hooked in this sense genuine rapid. because of the fact of this childrens consistently think of they're "in love" another day. in actuality the component of your strategies it is in a position to comprehend circumstances and make rational judgements isn't even totally progressed yet. do exactly your self a desire and shrink this off. If i might have everyday what i understand now at 14 i might of stored myself lots of heart discomfort. I comprehend now how stupid i became at that age. get exhilaration from your young ones!!
2016-10-18 07:38:42 · answer #4 · answered by harte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself and my sister are a big age different and we were that way. We would fight all the time. It is just children I guess. The good news is, you grow out of it. My sister is now thirteen and we are not like that at all.
2006-10-01 09:22:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My brother and I are five years apart and we fought endlessly. We get along now that we are both adults, but we used to get into some pretty good fights.:)
2006-10-01 07:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are it has more to do with their being boys than anything else. I have a younger sister(12 yrs.younger) and she and I never fought. If anything the rest of our siblings did their best to spoil us younger kids.
2006-10-01 07:38:14 · answer #7 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a younger sister and we are 6 years apart...for me and her fighting and working on each others nerves comes naturally!!!!
but during our lives our fights have decreased, so im sure your sons fighting will too!!!
2006-10-01 08:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋