I am a very heavy set guy! about 230lbs and no girl wants to date me! i am a football and basketball star but for sum reason they wont date me! they tell me im sexy but its there friends that get in batween us! at this point i may never get laid or have a relation ship! help me!
2006-10-01 07:29:48 · 17 answers · asked by 96' Subaru Impreza L 2.2l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop going after the same girls...or take their friends aside and bluntly ask them why they interfere with you and thier friend...if they don't give a good reason, tell them to back off...girls have a bad habit of caring what others think, so don't be discouraged if you get turned down...they are just shallow if they do...
2006-10-01 07:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both fat men and women are found unattractive by most people. It's also a disease because your small heart cannot handle all that weight. You have to loose weight. Google "pilates" that program will help you loose weight it only costs $20 bucks and you only have to work out 3 days a week. I already used it and it worked for me. Also another diet is to drink protein mix and chicken salad and fruit for 3 days, you will loose 10 pounds. Don't try the Atkins no-carb diet, it will starve you and make you sick. Some girls like heavy men, you can put an ad online for girls seeking heavy men and see what happens. But it is usually girls who are heavy themsleves or were beat up by their last skinny boyfriend and are looking for a change.
Just eat right and exercise, basketball helps, but you need toning to firm up the flab, which is what pilates does, and lift weights to suck in the fat. Good luck, and don't have sex, you are too young and sex is for people who are married no matter what your weight is.
2006-10-01 14:43:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your height? I don't know of a lot of football players who weigh less than 200 to 230 or up to 300. Is it fat, and if it is, then how could even play football? Don't be to "get laid", in any event, but a relationship is fine.
2006-10-01 14:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be coming off as desperate. ....I am not trying to offend you or to suggest that you are desperate.... Let me explain...
Sometimes when a person seems to act nervous it's because they are just nervous. Sometimes a person acts nervous because they feel anxious about themselves and whether or not they measure up. ....People usually detect something a little uneasy about the person who seems anxious, so they choose not to hang out with them. .......This problem is more prevalent the younger you are.
I suggest you take a little time to concentrate on yourself. ....Learn to play a musical instrument, or take a drawing class. ....Do volunteer work!.....Doing these things will help you learn more about yourself and what you want out of life. .....the hidden benefit is that you will also stop obsessing over whether or not you have lots of girls lined up to date you.
Best of everything!
2006-10-01 14:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by ☺ . CIEL . ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone wants to date you, believe me. Stop worrying and just be who you are. Everyone has qualities that are attractive to the opposite sex. Your own self confidence is the only thing that will stop you from dating. For some reason when we are young we are nervous about NEVER having someone to date. Believe me, it will happen. Be patient and be comfortable with yourself. And if you want to lose weight, do it for yourself and not to please women (though, honestly, guys rarely do anything without thinking about how it will affect their love life).
2006-10-01 14:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kidd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what dont listen to what other people say and if a person likes you for who you are then she will not care what is on the outside only what is in the inside so dont get blue cuz you might not get laid there will be a specail girl for you.
2006-10-01 14:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by sext mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, the point of a relationship isn't to get laid. if that's all you want get a **** buddy. in a relationship, people actually CARE about each other. when you understand that, you might have some success, in finding someone. good luck
2006-10-01 14:33:41 · answer #7 · answered by when's my next vacation??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do their friends get in the way? I think I would probably need to know that to go further. Is this high school? People are idiotic in high school, wait until you're out and in college.
2006-10-01 14:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Alessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maby you are not meeting people in the right palces. And if you get getting laid off your mind something just might happen for you.
2006-10-01 14:32:29 · answer #9 · answered by MrsJClair 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could it be that the girls sense that i you want is to try in get in there pants that really turns a girl off! try act like a ok guy and maybe the girls will start to notice you for whom you claim to be ,a decent guy that looking for a relationship
2006-10-01 14:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋