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So heres my problem: I started dating this guy who seems to be really great about 2 months ago. He lives in a nice town & is literally 1 door away from 1 of the local bars that has live music once a week-he has been taking me out for that. He also told me about his last gf & how they didn't end on good terms. She doesn't seem like a bad person by what he says, but it just didn't work, you know? WELL...the first week that we went there I found out just who that ex of his was b/c that is her local hang-out aparently. I also found out that that is where they met. What bothers me is that half the time hes looking at me & half the time hes staring at her because he positions himself so that shes in eye-sight. This makes me uncomfortable for obvious reasons. When I say something to him about it, he makes some rude comment about her & then stops for maybe 10 min. She has been staying away & not paying attention for the most part. Does he still have feelings for her &should I just end things?

2006-10-01 07:26:07 · 9 answers · asked by That Girl 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I've already told him that I don't like going there but he insists on doing so.......

2006-10-01 07:41:02 · update #1

We do things occasionally during the week with just the two of us but he insists on going out to that bar when theres a band.

Also, he's already told me that he doesn't like going to bars and that atmosphere around it....

2006-10-01 07:45:25 · update #2

9 answers

It is obvious he still has feelings for her. If you are looking for a serious relationship this is not the guy. He has issues from this previous relationship he needs to get over. If you are just wanting to have fun with him go for it. But understand he has these issues and he may run back to his ex at anytime.

2006-10-01 07:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kidd 1 · 0 0

He is putting on a show for her and you sound like the attraction. Quit going to that bar with him.

2006-10-01 14:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0 0

Okay. . honestly It does seem like he may have some feelings for him. Though seriously think about it? Hes with you now.And you have to show him that you can make him as happy as how she did.

2006-10-01 14:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by till_deathdowepart 1 · 0 0

If you really like this gie go to another club and see if the problem disappears.

2006-10-01 14:36:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nevada S 1 · 0 0

How long has it been since they broke up?Maybe he's still feeling hurt by it and hasn't told you.This is easy to solve,just hang out somewhere else,you need to get him to understand this if he truly wants to move on from her and be with you,just talk with him about it.But you have to be honest too,if you don't want him or can't handle what's going on, move on yourself.

2006-10-01 14:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0 0

this aint cheers go to the next bar

2006-10-01 14:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by lex1979x 3 · 0 0

FIND ANOTHER PLACE TO GO TO. IT SOUNDS LIKE HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HER, AND MIGHT BE USING YOU TO MAKE HER JEALOUS!

2006-10-01 14:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0 0

yes, he is not over her yet

2006-10-01 14:32:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think u should end it

2006-10-01 14:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by luvly brunette 1 · 0 0

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