he is not exactly cute and i started going out with him at a football game and in about 5 minutes everybody knew and started teasing me. i like him and i wanted to hold his hand and stuff but i knew how much crap i would get from people then and at school i need advice and im only 13 so help me
2006-10-01 07:21:42 · 12 answers · asked by errica2012 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to ask your self what do you care about most him or other people then you will no what to do other people all ways have some thing to say just go with your heart cause that the only thing thats real
2006-10-01 07:29:38 · answer #1 · answered by ineedya_00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really like this guy, so stay with him. I broke up with a plain looking guy in middle school b/c the whole school laughed about it, now I wonder what has become of him and wish I would have stayed with him. Now I realize everyone was jealous because I was happy with him. Trust me, everyone is jealous of new couples, even unattractive ones. People are jealous that you found someone. and they guys are jealous because they could not use their good football looks to win you over, and instead the sweet guy won.
Stay with this guy, and kiss him in private at a movie, you will have such good memories, your school years will fly fast! Teasing is hard but having a boyfriend for the school dances is priceless! I wish I were still in school. But only stay with him if you like him, which I can tell you do. And no sex for you, you are too young!
2006-10-01 14:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer is Stacey A. Smith. She was a girl I badly wanted to date in school. She was very unattractive and that was my main reason for not dating her. I had the best phone conversations with her (and I dont like talking on the phone) and we had a natural chemistry together. She genuinely made me happy when I was around her. I still wonder what would have happened if I hadn't been so shallow. If he makes you happy, ignore the people around you. They will eventually stop teasing you. And if they dont you have a great guy to help you get over it. It is a bad habit to start to allow the public to dictate how you will run your life. Don't let them.
2006-10-01 14:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kidd 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, I exactly know what your going threw. Your 13 years old and at that age your afraid of judgment from your friends. Just a little info. You are the one going out with him, not your friends. So who are they to judge in what taste you like.Ignore them, just always think about why your going out with him. You probably like him for personality and nothing is wrong with that at all. Those people will in the end get over it because honestly if you think about it, who said that whatever they say is your reason for breaking up with someone who you really do like. You be with someone because you feel so have a connection with someone and that person makes you feel like he/she treats you differently then anyother person.
2006-10-01 14:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by till_deathdowepart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't be so shallo, peer pressure and pride will kill u. but a broken heart feels like death.........don;t be so quick to worrie what other people are saying especially the ones that don't have a boyfriend. if he makes your stomach feel like butterflies are inside stick with it(just holding hands is far enough) i gurantee if he likes u like u like him beauty is only skin deep.you'll find out that alot of beauty comes from the heart deep within don't mess up what seems to be good for you and not for the gander
2006-10-01 14:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, if you like this guy and he likes you just ignore everyone else and they will just get over it. I wish i would have done that, but i broke up with him instead and lost him. Dont do wat i did. make the right choice. Follow you heart, not your head, or your friends about him. by the way i am also 13
2006-10-01 14:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 13, and you will learn in time that you need to be with whoever makes you happy. If this guy makes you happy, date him and ignore everyone else!
2006-10-01 14:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by tannedknight45 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy dont worry about what other people think as long as you happy with him and he treats you good thats all that matters
2006-10-01 14:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by sara s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok hun if he is sweet nice and that accept the cuteness factor u shoudnt care wat other people think that would just be really rude thing to do u dont want to be nown for the rudest girl in school now do u
2006-10-01 14:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by popular 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was told to tell u that ur too young to be having a boyfriend, focus on school and ur toys
2006-10-01 14:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by lex1979x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋