2006-10-01 07:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Peter N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is never a way to actually,and completely "stop" being shy around the opposite sex if you already are.But,I do know one thing that MADE me stop being so shy-I pushed myself.I did things that I normally wouldn't do.I know you may not want to,but if you don't,nothing will ever happen.Talk to a girl-push yourself to.I know it's hard,but it works,and a lot of times,the girl is SO glad that you finally talked to her.I know it's hard,hunny.
I had to do it so many times,because I was the shyest person you'll even know.But,when I did it,I realized guys were more appealed to me,and they started talking to me more,because they knew I would talk back.I was no longer the "shy girl".
2006-10-01 07:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't something that u can just get a quick answer and fix the problem. This is part of your personality and you don't want to change that even if you could. Allot of girls like shy guys, it shows them that u r really into them and we love that, it is very sweet. All you really need to do is just make yourself go up to them and remember that it will be OK if you stumble on a few words. Good Luck!
2006-10-01 07:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by tms21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put yourself out there. Make conversation with new people all the time. If you don't practice, you won't get better. It's always easier to find something in common with a person that way you have something to talk about - and just branch from there. A nice dose of confidence goes a long way too. Good luck!
2016-03-18 03:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to let you know. Its alright being shy. Its alright to be afraid to show who you really are inside, and afraid of judge ment. You want to open up more? show everyone who you really are? Take a chance and talk to someone, ask them about there day or what they did last weekend. Bring up conversation and things to talk about.
2006-10-01 07:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by till_deathdowepart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds cliche, but just be yourself around them. Talk to them and relate to them as if you aren't looking for a date. No man attracts "every" woman and there is no man that can't attract at least a few women. Just be your natural self around women. You'll be surprised who you attract. And when you find that special someone...DONT STOP JUST BEING YOURSELF! We should not change for anyone. And if she is worth the effort of a relationship, you wont have to change for her.
2006-10-01 07:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kidd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it in a friendly way. As soon as you look at girls as someones that you want to be friends with and not get in their pants, you will began to be more confident and get better with talking to them, since whats the problem with comming up to someone and saying whats up?
2006-10-01 07:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of practice and experience makes you better. Just go for it and don't loose your confident in the process, pal!!!
2006-10-01 07:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by vijay888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF...don't get too conscious when it comes to girls. We like CONFIDENCE...that doesn't necessarily mean the "popular guy" but a guy who's calm and shows no fear. learn how to be comfortable with yourself and just be real
2006-10-01 07:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk up to them and talk u can have girls that r friends and they will be the best friends of ur life b/c they give great advice just IM me if u want 2 talk cherrychick1098
2006-10-01 07:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by Sara S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang around with them...
2006-10-01 07:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by madpianist_hahaha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋