Ok, so there's a guy I like and we've messed around on a few occasions. The next day we've both acted very couply. However, I found out he had slept with a prostitute while I was on holiday and am now totally confused. I know we aren't together and have no ties to each other at all, but I am confused as to how to act around him now. I still like him. Please help!!
2006-10-01 07:15:03 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I need to point out I haven't slept with him or done anything past hands. I am 21.
2006-10-01 07:16:58 · update #1
Did he do it like on a dare or something? How does everyone know he did it? It is kinda gross that he did that either way but I dont know what to tell you. I would sit down and talk to him and ask if there is anything between the two of you and if so what is the deal with him doing that. Ask him if that is something he does or plans to do alot and whether or not he protected himself.
Maybe he has a sex addiction or maybe he is just a pig???
2006-10-01 07:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care?He's not your man,he's just the man your talking to at the time.Now how you found out he slept with a prostitute doesn't really matter at this point but have the smarts to ask him to be tested before sleeping with him but keep the info about what you found out to yourself and drop the matter if you plan to date.If you don't want to date him or sleep with him you need to tell him why if he ever wants to sleep with you.That's the right thing to do.
2006-10-01 07:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to know what you can and can't deal with. If you have no qualms about the fact that he slept with the prostitute then discuss the future of your relationship and determine if he is willing to be faithful. Good luck!
2006-10-01 07:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by DownAndOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know we are not supposed to judge people,but sleeping with a prostiute??? this guy apparently has no morals or self control, obviously has no respect for women and for the sacred process of making love, I know you like him very much , but you should ask yourself does he deserve ur affection?
I am not even going to mention the fact that he might go on sleeping with prostiutes for the rest of his life , without letting anyone know, can u trust him?
and AIDS????thought about that/?
2006-10-01 07:29:52 · answer #4 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was the prostitute Christian? If she was it ok. Christian gals are tight and clean. If she an infidel then you need to leave him. Infidels will only cast doubts about Christ in your mind. Worst there c l i t walls have been ripped through so many times, chances are he's banged her more than once. God only Bless Christian wh o r es.
2006-10-01 07:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Skyeboi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a male friend and I lost all respect for him when I found out he had been with prostitutes. Even on a friends holiday, he said he saw them 'working' and would have indulged had I not been there.
I felt so cheap.
2006-10-01 07:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by daisymay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think he likes you but couldn't wait maybe all the playing around was too much for him, but either way needs or not I wouldn't touch him now. I mean its not like he went with just another girl he went with a prostitute and that's just plain nasty.
2006-10-01 07:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by peachy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be VERY (If not EXTREMELY) apprehensive of continuing any sort of romatic relationship with this person. If this person is compelled to pay for sex, obviously he has very little self control, or high moral ground. Obviously he has no quams about paying for sex, and so he will probably do it again. I would be concerned about STD's. Obviously if you are confused about it, and it makes you feel uncomfortable, it is not right, so please don't try to change YOUR MIND or compromise your morals or judgement and CONVENCE yourself it is ok. Good luck, and go get checked. Don't continue to see him
2006-10-01 07:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by CBL123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a hint and start dressing a bit more slutty. Obvious he loves whores, and you're not doing it for him. If your morals allow it, start wearing skimpier outfits and use more makeup. Put on some purfume like Poison, and flirt a little more.
2006-10-03 05:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being forced to make a decision. Can you forgive about the hooker? As you said, you had not committed to each other at that point. Is he worth it? Can you trust him? Most importantly, was he wearing protection?
2006-10-01 07:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋