Ok well i am talkin to this guy from my school "BOB" (look at my other quesations and answer them because i need all the help i can get) well he called me last night and I am so happy we didnt talk long but the fact that he called me I am happy..retard isnt it?? lol well anyways I really am starting to like him but how can I tell him Im not goin to able to go to partys and stuff like that with him and I dont want him to think I am a loser but I really like him but Im not into that party stuff I like to go to movies and out to eat.....how can i figure out a way to tell him that???
2006-10-01 07:10:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he is willing to take you you should go,most guys don't want their girlfriends there.you don't have to drink if you don't like it tell him you have a headache and want to go home.sometimes we have compromise.
2006-10-01 07:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is so important in any relationship. If you are uncomfortable telling him in person, write him a note. Or better yet, make up a "dating interests" survey and give it to him as well as answer the questions yourself. Include your likes and dislikes as well as what your "ideal" date would be like. Then trade answers. If he is a match for you, wonderful. If he is not, then accept that there is a perfect match for you out there somewhere and keep your eyes and heart open. Most importantly, don't change who you are just to try to fit into someone else's world. You both will regret it in the end.
2006-10-01 14:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be stright forward about what you want and what you don't want in a relationship. Tell him that you're not a bore or a loser you're just not into partying. And if he really likes you he wont think that way anyway and he'll respect your wishes.
2006-10-01 14:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if you really like him that much then you should be honest to him. or you can tell a friend to talk to him and see if he likes you back but i really think you should be honest. well if you dont like to go to parties then just tell him and he might set another thing just for you and him. if he takes you to the movies then you can tell him how you fell but make sure that he doesn't have a girlfriend.
2006-10-01 14:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by sext mama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you're not into parties. And then offer the option of a movie or dinner...or both!
2006-10-01 14:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like u just stated. Be honest and open. Good luck!
2006-10-01 14:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Milie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to figure that out on our own, but if he likes you...He's bound to understand!
good luck!!!!! =)
2006-10-01 14:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by grlwiththegreeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he will understand and if he doesnt then that means what else would he disagree with if you were to get married?
2006-10-01 14:17:58 · answer #8 · answered by steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise,Do a little of what he likes and a little of what you like.
2006-10-01 14:16:24 · answer #9 · answered by browneyesb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give t to him straight, he will respect you more for this
2006-10-01 14:13:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋