I met this girl on the internet and we dated for a while but she keeps saying that she wants to date other people too, but on the other hand she still dates me and she really shows me that she really likes me, I am really confused, I really like this girl but I dont have any more time for games what should I do?
2006-10-01 07:06:16 · 20 answers · asked by lx4vr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her an ultimatum and tell her that you're not really the kind of person that's into the "dating other people" situation, and if she still wants to then you will consider it breaking up. Make it clear that you do like her, but she needs to chose if she feels the same way or wants to go separate ways. I've never seen the point in "seeing other people" while you're dating. It just doesn't make sense.
2006-10-01 07:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by CourtneyMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your situation sounds like one I have! He thinks HE should get to keep dateing, but ahd the balls to ask me to stop! Don't seem fair, now does it??
Well, could it be you have yourself a "player"? Do you spoil her and spend $$ on her? If so, and she still wants to see you, but others too, maybe she's waiting for the fattest wallet to open up??
On the other hand, if all you 2 have is "dateing", it's OK for singles to date different people. If you consider your relationship more "serious", then tell her how it's bothering you, and You'd like for the 2 of you to be just one for now. If she doesn't agree, then she isn't that interested.
2006-10-01 14:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where did u say u met her.you get what u pay for don't be so nieve that she wasn't dating other people when she met u she just decided to tell u because she knows u really like her and that not what she's about u say she shows u how she really likes u did she tell u.....and if that were true why would she tell u she still wants to date other people.this is not the type of girl that u can call your own. I know it might hurt but cut your losses or continue to get leftovers u deserve better
2006-10-01 14:14:10 · answer #3 · answered by mojajazmo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like she has found a good thing with you and is afraid to lose it, but wants something else and it is within reach. By telling you she wants to see other people, she doesn't have to hide the date with the other guy, or hurt your feelings if she gets caught with him or ends up with him.
I'd recommend letting her know that you're interested in more of a committed relationship and don't want to date other people. If she can't give that to you right now, you need to look elsewhere.
2006-10-01 14:09:02 · answer #4 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being honest with you - not playing games. She likes you and wants to keep seeing you, but she also wants to see other people.
You need to make up your own mind. Can you keep sharing her? She really does like you or she would dump you.
Is she worth waiting for? You may have to have a lot of patience.
If you can't wait for her you will have to make the move to dump her. If you are looking for someone who is into exclusive relationships she is not the one for you at this time.
2006-10-01 14:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell you how you feel. Do you prefer to date only one person at a time and wish the same of her? then let her know this and stick to your guns. She might decide not to date you any longer but at least you, or she, won't be bothered with games.
2006-10-01 14:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what the deal is! if she's playing games with you, that means she might want to date other people, but there is none that will take her! She may feel insecure, so just talk to her! Find out whats wrong and incourage her!
good luck with her! =)
2006-10-01 14:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by grlwiththegreeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you actually physically date in person.....you only met online?
And you know what, just like its fine if she wants to date a couple people, its ok if its not ok with you........You don't have too and you don't have to see her if she needs other people. She doesn't want to be attached if she would rather casually date ..... go find someone else.
2006-10-01 14:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to stop and ask yourself, if she treats you so well yet tells you she wants to see other people, does she give other men the same attention she's giving you? If she treats you so well and ACTS like you're special to her, act may be the operative word. Just something to consider.
2006-10-01 14:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and just be friends with her. Don't blind yourself or give yourself false hope. She doesn't want that kind of commitment with you, at least not right now, if ever. If something more is meant to be between you, it will happen with time and you wont have to try to read between the lines.
2006-10-01 14:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋