People always tell me that my best friend and i would make the perfect couple and they think that we were made for each other. Every time i get mildly upset becuase things don't work out with some guy they always tell me, "it's because you and Nathan were meant to be together." He really is the perfect guy and i really like him more than a friend. the problem is that he is completly in love with someone else. any suggestions out there? I know god will eventually take care of it, but i was just wondering...
God Bless you all!
2006-10-01 07:03:56 · 6 answers · asked by ♪Krys♫ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. he's not in an actual relationship...he just really likes this other girl
2006-10-01 07:04:51 · update #1
p.p.s. just so you all know, this is a different guy than all previous questions.
2006-10-01 07:13:10 · update #2
well since he is not in a relationship with the other girl than you can go for it but i suggest you not talk badly about this other girl instead i would just be there for him and listen to him and eventually he will realize just be his friend for a little while and let things happen which they will and when he realizes what you already know than he will be completely yours, so just let it happen and it will remember all good things come to those who are willing to wait and if you can wait then he will respect you all that more
2006-10-01 07:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by foxxylesley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is the underlying basis for all long lasting relationships, because our friends love us for who we truly are, and because they know we love them for who they truly are.
Your probably may be, that he thinks of you as more of a friend, than a lover. He needs to see you in a different light. Perhaps you could ask him to go to a movie, or something, and dress up very sexy for him. Not in a teddy or anything like that, but in a very feminine outfit, because guys are attracted to women, because they look like women.
What attracts him most to women is what you need to concentrate on. For example: if he's a butt man, you need to pick out an outfit that will highlight the good qualities of your butt, and down play any negatives. If you don't know what appeals to him the most, sexually, then you need to be a complete package woman, until you do.
I would suggest a short skirt or dress, ample cleavage showing, hosiery, unless your legs are nicely tanned, and without imperfections, and high heels, which make a woman's legs look all the more feminine. This way he'll see you as more than just a friend, if he is interested in you at all, other then just being friends.
2006-10-01 14:20:14 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't anything you can do. You can support him and be with him as often as he wants you around. You can be clear with him that you are interested in him as more than friends.
You can't control how someone feels, but you can let them know how you feel.
2006-10-01 14:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by tjjone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your feelings on the table with him and leave the ball in his court. Can't hurt and then you'll know if you should move on.
2006-10-01 14:08:06 · answer #4 · answered by woohoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got the upper hand....tell him u want a relationship. best friends do not get upset.
2006-10-01 14:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by askance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you show them.
2006-10-01 14:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋