I and my girl friend are so far from each other, how do i make her keep loving me till we meet?

Question

sometimes she tells me she is finding it difficult to wait but she is still trying, i know she loves me dearly, even though we met on net and have not seen each other live...only on cams and picture for close to a year now

Answer 1

The world is like a mirrow that reflevcts on what ever you do, ;love her and don't cheat on her, she will do same. then hurry and meet with her, it's not easy to have a single lady waiting, remember, you are not the only she is attracted to...i wish you luck dude.

Answer 2

For starters you cannot "make" someone love you or "keep loving" you. According to Dr. Stephen Covey, the author of "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" he states that love is "not a feeling" and that it's "something you do." Love takes time to build and it also requires a 2-way interaction. Without you two experiencing the physical presence and intimacy to really solidify your actions (so you can have those "loving feelings") you need to be with one another physically.

Very few people can pull off long distance relationships which is why I don't recommend them. I think you're better off just staying friends with her and finding someone closer to you. Otherwise if you want to strengthen your relationship you really have to go visit her or vice versa and do it on a regular basis. I know couples that only see one another twice a month because of their careers. Personally, I think that's silly, especially if it's been a long term relationship or marriage.

The key is to stay in touch, not necessarily every day, but that has a double-edge to it because if you stay in touch then she's going to actually miss you more and wish you were there. If you don't communicate enough she'll still miss you but she might go off and get her needs met elsewhere. This is not a good situation to be in, I know but long distance relationships seldom work. I'd keep her as a friend and find someone closer. At least, that's what I'd do.

Rod

Answer 3

I did a long distance relationship for over 7 years and all I really did was have great conversation in my letters and phone calls always letting her know that she and only she is who I want to be with. Now I don't recommend that you tell her the same thing but always let her know how you feel about her and that your going to stick it out until you two meet once again. No gift or amount of money will hold a person. Sincerity. sounds good? That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

Answer 4

Well show some insentive... Collect cans if you got to. But go see her before its too late.. Get a second job. do some cutbacks. Anything to find the money to get there.. Heck if that important. Hitch hike

Answer 5

If you are not going to see her anytime soon...I think it's time to call it quits. I know you love her, you both need to find other people, closer by. You two should just be friends, until you actually meet. Because when you meet her, she might not be what you expected her to be.

Answer 6

keep reasuring her of how you feel. 2 ppl that really love each other do wait years sometimes. read tips on dating and more to help you on this site

Answer 7

One thing that won't work is beating her over the head with the knowledge that you're worried about losing her love.

Answer 8

You can't, you can only hope to keep her interest. It is so foolish to think you are in love when you have comunicated only on line.

Answer 9

Come on man it's over.

Answer 10

Long distance relationships are very tough and often fail...