I met a lady online a few weeks ago, we exchanged our pics and were chatting too. I also asked her to tell me whenever she feels ready to meet.
Recently we've exchanged our cell numbers and one evening we sent each other over 40 sms'es so I think it shows she's keen.. she also said she's very disappointed that all guys cheat and so on..
Now I don't understand anything what's happening here, she looks interested in me but she never sends me messages first.. or she just thinks I should take the initiative. I haven't called her yet (sms only) but I don't want to seem pushy.
What do you think should I keep sending her messages or wait for any signs from her?
We live in the same city, by the way
Thanks alot for helping,
have a great day
2006-10-01 06:45:30 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Owl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though the question is explicitely not addressed to me, I still feel the urge to answer it... You can report me later. ;-)
Yes, I would say she's interested in you, but that may be as a pen-pal, or a friend, not necessarily a romantic partner -- unless if, in some of the chatting/SMSing, wasn't also a little flirt or sexual inuendo and the spinning of the idea of getting together. If so, then YES ! she wants to meet you and you should take the initiative; DON'T WAIT ANYMORE !!! ACT !!!
Whatever the intention, I think you should call her, just to speak with her -- one phone call cannot mean you're pushy... Try to establish what's the nature of her interest in you... If you think she's worth it, start gradually replacing the chatting/SMSing with live phone calls... find out approximately where she lives, scoop out the location of a nice caffeteria half the distance between your place and hers and ask her to join you for a cup of coffee...
Hope you find this useful... Good luck !
2006-10-01 07:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Restless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has already stated that she is disappointed in guys, so maybe she is holding on to that and is waiting for you. She could be feeling insecure and may not think that all the attention you show her means you are interested.
If you are interested, then keep up with being the initiator. As long as you don't mind of course. You could also bring it up to her in a joking sort of manner, so she doesn't take it the worng way. Just simply ask her if she is shy, and thats why you always have to make the first move (or sms that is). Good luck and try to be patient. This could turn into something great :)
2006-10-01 06:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, the lady is just being careful. She thinks all men cheat. I say majority but not all. If ur really interested in her keep the sms going. U'll know from her responses if she's also interested in you. If u get to the point that u'll both agree to see each other in person, that's another level for ur friendship. take one step at a time. Good luck and I hope u don't seal her belief that all men cheat, ok?
2006-10-01 06:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Milie88 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many women who have been cheated on are too afraid to make the first move. She doesn't want to contact you in case you reject her. She may think you are on-line with someone else and she will bother you if she IMs you. You will need to make all of the first moves until she is sure you can be trusted. It isn't fair, but you are being compared to the others who have hurt her. Give her the security she needs so she can enter into a relationship with you. DO NOT CHEAT ON HER!!
2006-10-01 06:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, she is waiting for you to take the initiative which is why she doesn't text you first. If you are interested in her, call and take it from there. Remember this, women like to be pursued...Good luck to you.
2006-10-01 06:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, this woman wants you to chase her. So call her and agree to meet somewhere like a city cafe. And take it from there.
Good luck buddy!
2006-10-01 07:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm I in basic terms got here out of comparable difficulty. female I cherished who's my age (24) yet is engaged to her companion and has been with him a solid few years. They weren't getting on and we began to get on. to shrink an prolonged tale short, we the two fell for another yet she ended up ditching me to attempt and artwork issues out along with her companion. Dude enable me enable you recognize something precise now... a million. it is morally incorrect as much as now or see females who already have companions. 2. females who're in failing relationships want somebody to get interest from. you are the intense-high quality guy precise? in basic terms like me? properly they are going to use that till issues are going greater appropriate with their companions and then ditch you. the ethical of this tale, that is alright to flirt and mess approximately with females, whether they're taken yet do no longer take it any further. except she breaks up with him, i does no longer even bypass close to her cos you will get harm... Sali speaks the fact... if she did no longer love him then why does not she depart him? females misinform get what they elect... so a ways as you're worried, she's no longer getting on along with her companion and it skill that is positive for her to get interest from you... it is till she runs decrease back to him for intercourse and much greater interest... you are the emotional interest and her hubby is the actual i'm guessing.
2016-12-26 06:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So call her!
The next question on yahoo! answers will be
"I have him my cell phone # and we live in the same city but he never calls! What should I do?" ;)
2006-10-01 06:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋