It's pouring outside and thought I'd idle away the time by asking what kind of looks you go for in a guy, how he should behave and what his personality should be like in order to win you over? Just so I can treat someone better and know what to do.
Btw I'm 27, 6ft4 with dark eyes, intelligent but quite shy and sometimes not a great talker, quite sensitive and witty, in a moderately paid job. (also not as self obsessed as this normally, honest)
2006-10-01 06:42:14 · 22 answers · asked by micktravis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself. different people go for different things in a guy. I personally go for the looks first, otherwise you wouldnt look at a guy twice and then i look at his personality, he's got to make me laugh be witty and considerate. he has to have respect for himself and for me, he's got to have a good job as we may get married and have kids and need to support us financially, i of course need to support us financially as well. Also he has to be faithful, have trust between us and be able to communicate our feelings for each other and what is bothering us otherwise the relationship could go wrong without talking. he's got to be intelligent and have stimulating conversations. i like a guy who can sweep me off my feet and be romantic as well and keep the passion alive, e.g. buying flowers, dining out buying small gifts once in a while, i like surprises. i like a guy who can also be there for me and be my friend as well and be understanding and supportive with a good listening ear. of course this has to work both ways. i know i've said a lot but i was trying to be thorough even though it looks like i look for alot in a guy. i hope this helps!
2006-10-01 06:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can't speak for "other" women, that's why we're called individualls. Myself? I think if you're a pretty nice guy, honest, treat people the way "you" want to be treated, respect yourself, and not really give a flying "tuhootie" what others think about you, as long as you're a good person? Hey, that's the kind I like, and that's the kind I "have" in my life. I'm lucky though. There
are sooo many people in this world who "are" looking for the "best" looks, the "best" car and job, and don't slow down long enough to see the person for who he or she "is" inside. If I were single and your age group, I would want to meet a guy like you, you sound like you're for real. Hope I answered your question....good luck.
2006-10-01 06:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by Republican!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped looking for guys cause I found the one I am gonna marry. What makes me weak in the knees for him is the fact that he is smart but doesn't show it off, he is somewhat of a geek but I find that sexy. he is down to earth and is really great with my friends and my messed up family. I can be honest with him about anything and he doesn't get hurt by it. We have had great discussion about what we like and dislike in the bedroom or on the kitchen table.
2006-10-01 06:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pouring here too. You sound cool, but a bit too much older than me. Witty is always a great trait in my book. Shy guys are adorable. Wow, you're tall, but you forgot to say what your hair looks like. Girls can be real picky about a their guy's hair.
2006-10-01 07:07:08 · answer #4 · answered by Terri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by llorens 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For looks, I prefer dark hair & sexy eyes (eye color doesn't really matter). I also prefer a guy who puts effort into taking care of himself & keeping himself in shape. A nice speaking voice is always a plus too.
Personality: One of the biggest turn on's in my opinion, is a guy who shows genuine interest in me as a person (not just for sex). I love it when he asks me questions about my likes & dislikes, my hobbies, places I've visited or would like to visit, my dreams & goals for the future, etc.
I also look for a guy who is clear about his own interests, dreams & future goals...and has a desire to tell me about them. If he is taking positive steps to pursue & achieve those things, that is very attractive.
Sense of humor, good hygiene, cleanliness, fresh breath and good kissing skills are desirable.
Manners, integrity, honesty, courtesy & consideration are also very important...and finally, I seem to get along best with someone who has similar tastes and interests to mine.
2006-10-01 07:11:41 · answer #6 · answered by greengirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skin heads/Dreadlocks....Piercings, tattoos..bad boy underground djs....
Then to the other scale (as I am quite senstive & romantic!) I like boys who know a bit of Byron./Shelly/Wilfred Owen, with a bit of sarcasm thrown in!!
Witty is good, shy boys are sweet because theyhave a good personality when you get to know them as they think alot and prob.analyze quite a bit..height is good, most girls like to be protected by thier boys..money doesn't really interest me...aslong as they have a personality and are abit silly!!
2006-10-01 09:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by recklessme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have answered this today already, but seeing you ask so nicely, usually about 28, taller then 5ft 8in, dark hair, cute bum, honest, reliable, faithful, just the usual wish list for a man who does not exist, and he has to be funny and cute,
2006-10-01 06:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self confident, without being bombastic, is very sexy. A man who knows what he wants from life, without walking over other people to get it, strong but sensitive. That's the guy.
Oh, and you're only allowed to cry at your mother's death and your child's birth.
2006-10-01 06:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like a guy who can have a conversation about anything, from Pu$#y to politics. Who doesn't take himself too seriously or life and can accept me for me. Being great in bed is always a plus
2006-10-01 06:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by upfromnutin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋