to the boy who is in love with me, and i already have a boy friend. i cant tell the boy i dont like him out my own mouth, cause my boyfriend will see me talkin to him and take things the wrong way as if i am cheating on him, i just know for sure that he wouldnt even give me a second to explain, before he say those words like "ITS OVER, I AM THROUGH" some one please give me some advice!?!
2006-10-01 06:37:54 · 7 answers · asked by candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to stop being a biatch and tell him straight out, because it's good for him. If you don't, then he will keep going for what he can't get, not because he's an idiot, but because you didn't tell him directly. Rejection is necessary. Stop trying to be so "nice" because it is bad for him. And secondly, if your bf thinks TALKING to another guy is cheating, then you need to get a new bf.
2006-10-01 07:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by Cheese Face 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, I know someone must have told u this before. If you cannot even speak with a boy to simply say "i have a boyfriend" then, your boyfriend is mentally abusing you. He is so insecure that he shields you from anybody with a pen..s!! That's not your problem, that's something he needs to deal with. Let him know up front that u need to tell this other guy you have a "man" because you are so loyal to him and him only. Girl, you need to know how to play with his "ego". You are a woman remember? Caution: if he is the way you say he is, you're probably better off letting him go at some point, cause if he is like that as a boyfriend, imagine what he will be like as a husband. He'll tell everyone, 'THAT'S MY PROPERTY". Girl, check yourself!!!
2006-10-01 13:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just break it to him easy just say " your a really great guy but were a just to diffrent for it to work out; i sencirally hope you find someone out there that loves like i cant an that is good for you an that will treat you right an stick by you because i am sorry but i just cant" that will workk i am sure that way it gets rid of him but there is really no hard feelings between the both of you..hope it works out for the best bye bye
2006-10-01 13:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by none of your biz. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with out trust there is no relation ship . If he can not trust you to speak with other males then he is insecure and will only lead to problems later in your relation ship .
2006-10-01 13:44:46 · answer #4 · answered by YaYa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have your friend do it but do it nicely cause people can get really heartbroken over that sutff or send him a note
2006-10-01 13:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by bri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur bf abt it, n then go n talk to d person who has a crush on u, no missunderstandings shld b created then
n i don think there's any harm if u talk to a guy, ur bf shld'nt b dat narrow minded, n must trust u........................
2006-10-01 13:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send that guy a note,call him,txt him
2006-10-01 13:39:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋