I don't know what to do. There's this guy.. and he is SO ugly. He asks me out everyday and tells me to go to house to makeout with him. Keep in mind that he is SO ugly. and i dont think he has ever even made out wtih someone before. Please tell me how to tell him i don't like him at all. I don't want to hurt him though.
Thanks for all your help :)
2006-10-01 06:31:04 · 28 answers · asked by Kay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's asking you so blatantly to makeout then that is so disrespectful. Don't you feel offended as a girl in the first instance?
If you feel so, then how could you probably think about hurting etc in this regard???
I'm not sure about your circusmtances there but the best suggestion I could give is to tell him what you really feel. There is absolutely nothing wrong about this when he so blatantly did the same to you. [to makeout!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!]
I think kindness has a limit if not it could bite you back. Hence, react as early as possible.
2006-10-01 08:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by gsc104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all "ugly" in someones eyes!!
Sounds like this guy thinks your an easy mark for some reason. Do you have habits of going out and making out with anyone? Maybe some other guys have put him up to this??
Just come right out and ask him to STOP with the crap! Tell him your not interested.
2006-10-01 13:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that guy that he has to show u respect. Yuck! Asking someone to make out with him, that's just so disrespectful. It doesn't matter if he looked like the Hunchback of Notre Dame as long as he has the same good character. U my dear should also let urself be repected by respecting urself. Do not allow people to show u such disrespect.
2006-10-01 13:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Milie88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you. Idont know where you meet this guy but if it is at work, tell him over a cup of coffee that are not interested in him and he should not ask you again otherwise you will stop being his friend. And then if he asks you again after this, stop talking to him. He will get over it.
2006-10-01 13:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Tansy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about hurting his feelings. He is being disrespectful and it sounds like sexual harassment. Are you still in school? Tell an adult. Either way, make it known that you do not appreciate this and that you will not tolerate it. Tell him to leave you alone and hit him if you have to.
2006-10-01 13:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by black mamba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you get to know this UGLY guy? If he is a friend of your other friends, then you could ask them to tell this guy off. If he is from you work place, report harrasement to the top management. Ask any male friends of yours to confront him to dismiss him. If it really gets too much, report to the police but please warn this guy first before doing so.
2006-10-01 13:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by smile_: ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you only like him as a friend, or you can say you have a bf. Some guys never get the "hint" no matter what u do though!
2006-10-01 13:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont like him that way just the 2 of u not in a group! he could get really embarassed and that would hurt him also if you say that in a group he will think youre just tryin to be cool! if u want u can email me @ jaimiesandlin@yahoo.com
2006-10-01 13:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jaimie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just simply tell him you don't like him that way but he's a great guy. Honesty is best in situations like this because then he can move on and find someone who does like him instead of wasting time on someone who doesn't.
don't tell him he's ugly though!!
2006-10-01 13:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter if he is sooo ugly. Thats pretty shallow of you to judge him by his looks. Just tell him that you are not interested in him. Ignore him if he keeps bothering you. You should be flattered that someone likes you soo much. Dont judge a book by its cover. Maybe you should just be his friend....would that kill you. He might actually be a good kid yanno?
2006-10-01 13:34:59 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋