My girlfriend is just a minor she is only 11 and I am 14 and she says she already has had sex 2 times and I just want to satisfy her and not lose her as a gf. And according to the law its not illegal by the state of california. "If I was 15 it would be" What should I do? And dont tell me to leave her.
2006-10-01 06:18:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You grow up you ******** loser
2006-10-01 06:21:21 · update #1
My goodness. This is extremely much to young for having sex. I would leave the choice up to her. Let her know that you do not wish to have sex right now, and that you would like to wait till you are older, or till you are married. Don't be sorry for saying no to her -- stand your ground -- don't cave in. If she doesn't like your response and wants to break it off because of it, then it is her lose. There are many millions of people out there that will love you, do not demand sex from you, and do not have a problem waiting until both individuals are ready. If you can find them, they will be more respectful toward you and visaversa. There ARE other ways of pleasing a person without having sex. I would also be very concerned about your friend having sex so early. She has a strong possibility of catching a sexual disease or getting pregnant. Hopefully, she will start making better choices. Sometimes you do not know you have a sexual disease until it is much to late. Be careful out there and good luck.
2006-10-01 06:35:08 · answer #1 · answered by JB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should DEFINITELY wait. If she's not ok with that, get a new girlfriend. You have a whole life ahead of you. Losing her won't be a big deal in the long run. Plus, if it's meant to be, maybe you can get back together years from now when you are both ready to make a commitment and maybe she has realized that sex isn't everything. Stand up for what you believe in and don't let her convince you otherwise. If she's only 11 and has already had sex before, she's likely to break up with you too. Then you would have had sex with her for nothing, risking getting a disease or something from her-- definitely not worth it!!! Good for you for using your common sense and not just giving in! We need more people like you in the world!
2006-10-01 13:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by CourtneyMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex at 11, what a little ho. Satisfy her by taking her to a movie. And why do you like an 11 year old dude? Can't you find a little girl your age? Her parents must be some real winners!
2006-10-01 13:23:26 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only 11!!!!! And you are only 14, you should NOT do this. Especially for her having sex at such a young and tender age, this WILL mess her up mentally and I'm sure she will have problems developing relationships with men, do you want to be someone who contributed to that?
You both need to grow up.
2006-10-01 13:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, ok?
she's only 11. not even in HIGH school.
And she has not had sex twice. Sorry man, but she's lying.
And you, you're only 14.
You guys aren't ready for anything like this.
She has no idea how bad she can screw herself up by even having sex at such a young age.
Honestly, if she still giggles at the word sex or anything like that, she's not prepared.
And, God.
YOU GUYS ARE ONLY 11 AND 14. wtf?
2006-10-01 13:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by concrete_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes only 11 god, tell her no that chicks a freak just say if this is going to break the relationship then you going to say no....
2006-10-01 13:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my lord! She's had sex two times at the age of 11?? wow it's pretty disgusting. you shouldn't have sex with her and tell her to stop having sex(if she really is !) until she's reached the legal age.
2006-10-01 13:32:32 · answer #7 · answered by white rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two are way too young to be having sex and even thinking about it. It's good that you have your head on straight and you don't want to. You shouldn't have to have sex with her to keep her. It she breaks up with you over that, she really doesn't like you for you.
2006-10-01 13:24:23 · answer #8 · answered by julieanthony469 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it.
Oh my god. That is pretty disgusting that babies are having sex at 11 and 14.
GROW UP
2006-10-01 13:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Wite Out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP!!!! She is 11 and has had sex!!!!!! Where are your values she is way to young as you are to handle this. Slow down and enjoy life!!!!!!
2006-10-01 13:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋