I met this guy i like and we chilled together and it was going really well because i could tell he likes me and feels the same way about me. the problem is that the day after i met him he has hardly ever rang me to say hi or tx me but he only chats to me online but doesnt really talk much about wanting to meet up again eventhough he likes me...what shall i do
2006-10-01 04:58:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him duhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
are you that stupid??????????????????????
2006-10-01 05:07:10 · answer #1 · answered by love train 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guy obviously doesn't seem interested in u because he doesn't seem to be the kind of gentleman who will make u feel like a woman.
Don't u worry if he likes u he'll come around and make u want him maybe u haven't told him how u feel if he knows then he will come around because some guys are just not able to show it unless u tell it and that's a good thing for he respects u.
2006-10-01 05:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him whether he wants to see you again in person. Tell him you like him + would like to see him again. Maybe he's withholding something from you, such as the fact he may already be in a relationship, so is perhaps unsure whether to pursue this further. Possibly you're misreading his signals. Whatever, if he doesn't show any enthusiasm soon, I'd count your losses + move on!
2006-10-01 05:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, he just wants to make sure that you are into him, and he can't really tell now. If the conversation is just chilled, how does he know that you even like him, and he likes you? Give him a sign, and maybe he will bite.
2006-10-01 05:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm sounds like this guy is already with someone.
maybe they were going through a rough patch or maybe he got bored with the relationship and decided to spend time with other girls but since then they have kissed and made up and now he is feeling guilty. he is keeping his options open with you and keeping in touch incase it all goes wrong with his present lady.
this guy likes you stroking his ego but only at arms length!!
find someone nice :O)
2006-10-01 05:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by colette pippa d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the guy was only after one thing, sorry. he's only keeping a small amount of contact incase he feels like some fun again. he won't keep in contact with you a lot because he doesn't want you to think he's your boyfriend. my advice is to dump him and find a guy who genuinely likes you the way you like him.
2006-10-01 05:05:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In these sort of situations, if you've made your position clear to him and he doesn't respond positively, then you should cut your losses and find someone that will appreciate you and what you have to give in a friendship or relationship.
2006-10-01 05:44:20 · answer #7 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not going to put forth any effort he is not worth your time. A relationship doesn't work when it is one sided!!! Two people need to work together as a team.
2006-10-01 05:00:48 · answer #8 · answered by Trouble waitin 2 happen!!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore him.
well, he had a good talk with u,but it's only that,infacat he doesnt' like or crazy about u.
if he really likes u,he will make on a move or do something that u can feel comforatble with him.
2006-10-01 05:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by kikk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to move on - i'm sorry, but i think you can do better for yourself.
There is a guy out there who will shower you with attention - go find him - you deserve it!
2006-10-01 05:52:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy may be shy and probably just needs a little push from you. it could be that you are a sexy chick and it makes him go to piecies or make his mind blank!!!!! ;-)
2006-10-01 05:50:15 · answer #11 · answered by A Sincere Hard-of-Hearing Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋