and how bad does it hurt? what kind of hurt is it?
2006-10-01 04:55:29 · 12 answers · asked by jenn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its like sticking a cucumber through a donut hole, it is gonna stretch like it never has been before...And that back wall is not used to the forceful ram that will mashing it...Yes, it is gonna hurt
2006-10-01 04:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wont be alot of blood like when you get your period, maybe just some mild spotting. If your planning on losing your virginity then i would suggest talking to someone like your mom and make sure you know all about protection. As for the hurt, just make sure when you do decide to have sex for the first time its with someone who cares about you and is going to be gentle. It may hurt a little the first time he puts it in, but it will only be like for a second just like getting a needle at the doctor. Just remember to relax that way it won't hurt, you will probably be nervous ( i know i was), but stay calm and relaxed. Good Luck.
2006-10-01 12:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by kibbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the girl and the activity she has engaged in her intimate life before intercourse. If she has masturbated or had anyone put their fingers down there, it's obviously going to be more painful. As for the blood, it differs. But, usually isn't SO much. Maybe a couple drops here and there (like I said though, it DIFFERS.) And, as for the pain, it's bearable. Don't worry. If it wasn't, we'd all have stayed virgins. If you are planning on losing it, just relax. You will be fine and get through it. If you are ready, then that's all that matters.
2006-10-01 11:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by DiVenanzo™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bleeding and hurt comes from the torn hymen. Some says it is about the same as a menstrual cramp and the bleeding varies
2006-10-01 11:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how intact your hymen is. If fully intact then you may get some blood, however this stops rapidly, as the tear is such a small area. Make sure you a comfortable and fully stimulated (wet). Use lubricant if you prefer, and make sure your partner doesn't rush. Don't feel pressured by anyone, make sure it feels right for you before having sex.
2006-10-03 11:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by Stephen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the girl, some don't bleed, some do a little and it depends on the sex,if it's slow and gentle then there wouldn't be much damage to the hymen. if you're worried then speak to a female relative or go to your local family planning clinic or to your doctor and they'll help you out
2006-10-01 12:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That bleeding is not harmful and the pain of that bleeding is very,PLEASUREFUL,
2006-10-01 12:00:43 · answer #7 · answered by talatyaseen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only for a sec, it's a sharp pain but it will be replaced quickly
2006-10-01 11:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur under 18, u will think ur dying (j/k) save your self for your hubby
2006-10-01 11:58:02 · answer #9 · answered by thtalksh2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
often not at all and often no pain, some times they enjoy it
2006-10-01 11:58:15 · answer #10 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋