I broke up with my ex about 6months ago. I was having some problems after returning from being ill. I didn’t want to do anything or even sleep with her (anxiety about rejoining the world). I panicked and told her I needed time to get better and then I’d come back for her. We did keep seeing each other but it wasn’t much the odd meal or coffee. I now realise how selfish I’ve been. I have been begging her back for a month and shes thinking about it but she says “she has a wall up”. She has a new man who she says is safe even though she loves and misses me. I’ve been giving her excuses to why I did it. She says I’m emotionally selfish and I didn’t know what she meant. Now I do I don’t know how to tell her. I feel ive done too much begging already and it will just not be heard. I’m trying to give her space now and she does want to go out as friends soon. Have I been too over the top with my love yous?
2006-10-01 04:43:39 · 3 answers · asked by neil1427a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel so sorry for you, because you did what you had to do. But so did she. Do give her some space, and give her the ability to "miss" you by being absent. If she doesn't come around in (whatever time frame you set) then move on. Yours wouldn't be the first relationship to not work out because of timing. Sorry!
2006-10-01 04:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by JaneDivided 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give her some space! she knows how you feel... now let her come to you. by nagging her about how you feel all the time you are pushing her away.
2006-10-01 11:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you screwed up...learn from it...life goes on...let her go and don't make the same mistakes next time around
2006-10-01 11:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋