We have been in a good relation since 15 months, its just since couple of months i have been seeing a major change in her. Its her careless attitude towards me, i dont find her giving me the attention what she used to, infact she has even stopped sending me sms, which used to be a daily factor in our relation few months back. I know she doesnt have anybody else in her life besides me, but why do i see her change attitude towards me.....i tried asking her if there's anything rong between us, but she seems to be fine with everything. And again i face her weird attitude......does she still love me.....becoz i cant see the love in her eyes wht i used to see before?
2006-10-01 04:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by Mahesh P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That little puppy love obsession feeling you had at the beginning of the relationship cannot and will not last.
You have to move on to the "real" feeling part of the relationship and the "you have to work at it" part of the relationship.
If she says she's fine and nothing's wrong, then you're probably just obsessing about it too much and overanalyzing it.
2006-10-01 04:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate.... What ever we tell u here wont help. You got to talk to her and let her know how u feel. She must know that her attitude is hurting you and despite that u love her so much. Either she will understand and show you her love the way she used to do (which means its all good) OR she will tell u whats wrong and u guys can work it out (its good too) OR it could be something bad like she lost interest or whatever. But you got to talk to her otherwise this thing will be always in your mind and wont let u concentrate on anything else.
2006-10-01 11:35:13 · answer #2 · answered by dscrt_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is obivously something wrong. make she has fallen out of love with you. and she doesn't know how to tell you. or doesn't want to hurt you. or maybe there is someone else. and she is afraid to tell you that. in any case you need to find out. sit her down and confront her. tell her to stop shielding you from whatever is bothering her. tell her to be honest with you once and for all. tell her she is hurting you and you won't stick around if nothing is going to change.
2006-10-01 11:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't care for you anymore, I wouldn't stay with her (You say careless attitude.). It just doesn't seem to be working out. If she doesn't love you anymore, there is nothing you can do.
2006-10-01 11:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll im a grl i would like if u lost interest in me is i would try to still let u kno tht i sitll luv u and stuff like tht and see wat would say if u kno tht i care about and stuff like tht than u might come around.. who knows it could probably be a satge she is going through..but 15 months is a while tht means u guys are made for each other.. just tell he ru love her and prove to her tht u do.
2006-10-01 11:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by hello my name is stephanie<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋