2 know each other. he said he likes me nd wanted 2 see me again, which i didn't! yesterday i called 1 of my friend cuz i needed him to come to my hous cuz i wanted to talk to him, he didn't want 2, cuz evry1 thought i was going out with this guy. nd in the afternoon while going 2 the park to pick up my little bro, he(the guy, not my friend)was ther playing b-ball with his boys. he run 2 me nd ask me if i wanted to walk, said ok, but realy didn't wnt to. he asked me y i caled my friend this morning and got mad! i told him it personal and couldn't tel him, but i told him the other reason i wnted him 2 come was also giving him his b-day present. after a while he was cool with it(that wat i thought). we stayed out til 10pm. he walked me home and kissed me. the problem is i don't like him not that much, i like som1 else. when i got hom i was thinking bout the other guy. now we r datin, i wnt 2 tel him how i feels, but don't wnt 2 hurt his felings. wat do u think?>>most of my friends r guys
2006-10-01 03:35:50 · 9 answers · asked by naneya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good Lord, child!!
If you dont like him so much, just tell him that you have another
relationship.
Or, that you enjoy his company, but are not romantically interested.
Dont lead him on. YYou dont want to wait until you have two children by a guy you dont really love to make a statement.
2006-10-01 03:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by hls 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are you dating? Either way, you need to be honest, and aware that anyone that comes on that strong and that fast is potentially abusive and should be avoided. Tell him you are not interested, and do not think it is a good idea to see each other again, ever. As for the guy you like, tell him how you feel. Don't let someone push you into a relationship, you will never be happy this way, and they will eventually hurt you, maybe even for it. Stand your ground now. Maybe the guy you like will like you back, and you could date... know that dating means that you can see other people and whatnot.. also, define with this person the boundaries of dating. Like no sex for so long, seeing other people and hanging out with your friends, and what you'll bend on and what you won't. The guy will respect your honesty, and your boundaries, and the relationship will have more of a chance to bud into something long termish. And if you are going to be friends with guys, you better try to gt him on good terms with the guys you hang with, because they get jealous no matter how much they are cool with at first. As it once put to me... You only put one bull in the pasture with the females... put too many in, and they'll kill each other... it's their nature. Although, I wasn't too fond of the idea of being in a herd, or a cow for that matter... but you get the point.
2006-10-01 03:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this guy seems to show an interest in you and that is a good thing but you know how you feel about the other guy the question is dose this other guy feel the same about you and dose he wanna be with you. you need to think about that before you make a decision good luck
2006-10-01 03:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by tawni T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about MORE concentration on school/spelling and grasping the English language and LESS on some boy?
2006-10-01 03:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't doing him any favors by staying with him if you don't like him. Just break it off and follow your heart.
2006-10-01 03:53:33 · answer #5 · answered by JaneDivided 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him the truth or you'll both be miserable. take it from me I couldn't tell my g/f how I felt now we're married so just be truthful it will work out.
peace
2006-10-01 03:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by v f 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will give you something short and sweet :go 4 it!!
2006-10-01 03:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is YOUR life and you can do only what it pleases YOU!
2006-10-01 03:49:28 · answer #8 · answered by Tsikita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just give it to him straight
2006-10-01 03:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋