I have a black female friend who gets picked up by white guys all the time, expecially out in bars and clubs. she ends up sleeping with them, but then after a couple of rounds of hitting the sheets, they don't seem to what anything else but that. With so mucg racism going around why is ok to sleep with a black woman but you can't bring her home to the family
2006-10-01 03:20:19 · 7 answers · asked by sally b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a white male who is in a relationship with a black female, and my two children whom are white as well treat her with respect and hope one day to call her mom. Deep inside we all are looking for someone to love honour and cherish. We all have feelings of being wanted no matter of skin color or race. The fluid that flows through our veins is the same-red. Hatred is in the gene trait but it is up to us to control what is inside us.
2006-10-01 03:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by viper_64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married to a black woman and would offer up that there may be other reasons these people are not continuing your relationships. The most obvious thing here is that your meeting these guys in bars and clubs and having sex with them. That doesnt lead to long term relationships. Families are very important and men will not bring women home unless there is something very serious about the relationship. That said, racism is alive and well and these guys could just be jerks. If your concerned about that, get those things cleared up before they have you sexually.
Good luck.
2006-10-01 10:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Houston Golf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, not all "white guys" are the same, just as no other particular group is all the same. Secondly, bars and clubs are not the greatest place to meet people interested in a commited relationship. And lastly,according to what you wrote, your friend is just as "guilty" for sleeping around as the men are. Perhaps she should not be so quick to give herself away.
2006-10-01 10:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The prob is not that the men are white it is that she is meeting them in bars and clubs. She needs to meet men in settings where they are not just looking for easy sex and then hold back for a bit until she is sure that they are looking for a relationship
2006-10-01 10:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by leon h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a black girl for almost two years. Maybe a lot of guys are one thing and after the novelty (but certainly, not all are), but maybe your friend should be a little more selective about who she pursues...
2006-10-01 10:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by randyken 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Black women come off too aggressive; while Latin women are passionate and White women are caring & naturing. There are exceptions to this but I'm only talking about average.
2006-10-01 10:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
white men will sleep with anybody your friend is stupid to be sleeping around if she thinks that is how to go about finding a boyfriend she's got it all wrong poor girl
2006-10-01 10:37:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sandra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋