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This is the problem....I am 14 years old and my parents have always thought i am too young for guys, but i don'y listen to them about that, recently, the guy i like asked me to be his girlfriend and i said o.k. so now i have a boyfriend who is the greatest, and my parents still think i am too young to even like guys

2006-10-01 02:49:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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My parents are also overprotective. You can't do anything but make sure you don't break their trust in you. Try to show that you're responsible enough to have a boyfriend. :)

2006-10-01 02:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by xyndi 2 · 1 0

As a parent it is hard to watch your kids grow up, it seems these days you grow up far to soon. Also we have things to worry about that we didn't a few years ago, more STD`S, more teenage pregnancy's, one parent families the list goes on and on.As a parent I try to trust my kids, one 13 and one 15, all you can do is offer great advice without nagging ans hope they listen. We only want what is best for you and its hard for parents to think of their kids been sexually active or even thinking about it at your age, as hard as it is for you to imagine your parents having sex. There is no harm in having a BF as long as you are sensible and don't let things get out of hand, There is also the legal aspect of under age sex to consider to. All you can do is show your parents that you may be 14 but you are responsible, don't give them any reason to not trust you, if they say be in by 9pm then be in by 9pm, all these things over time build up trust between parent and child and it gets easier trust me.I am sure your parents love you very much and are still trying to protect their "Little girl" even though you think you are a lot more grown up than that. Been a parent is hard, cut them some slack and build up some trust .

2006-10-01 09:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Are you posting this because you want someone to say, "screw what your parents say, it's okay to have a boyfriend at age 14"?

I don't think you're too young to like/be intersted in the opposite sex, but dating one on one at age 14? I think you're too young (of course, this is my own opinion).

You have a long life ahead of you. You'll have tons of opportunities to have a relationship with a guy. Take some time to learn more about yourself, maybe go out on group dates?

2006-10-01 09:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0 1

listen sweetheart:

you can LIKE guys, your parents have no say in that.
You can LOOK AT guys, your parents have no say in that.
You can TALK TO guys, your parents have no say in that.
You can FLIRT WITH guys, your parents have no say in that.

But your parents can say whether or not you go out with them, kiss them, have sex with them, etc. You can call yourselves a couple, but no more than that without parental consent.

sweetheart, do not have sex until you are ready. same with kissing. don't let him force you into anything. hey, I'm a 17 year old guy, and I have never kissed a girl or had sex. Don't do anything you are not ready to do.

enjoy your innocence before someone else does. Keep it for yourself untill marriage. Have a good day sweetie.

2006-10-01 10:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by WolfMage 2 · 0 0

It isn't that you are to young to like guys... Your too young to date guys. Most boys at that age only have one thing on there mind anyway. Don't get wrapped up into the whole dating thing. It is a waste of time till you can drive and go somewhere on a date. Listen to your parents on this one. Wait till your sixteen to even date and wait till marriage to be sexually intimint

2006-10-01 09:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

It is ok to like guys, but there are things at 14 you should not be doing, that is what they are talking about.. Going out may mean you have a boyfreind but you may not be able to go to the movies or to the mall.. They are just worried about you doing things too young..

2006-10-01 09:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by 9929 3 · 1 0

I was dating at that age, now I am a parent and I do understand their worry.

Let them meet your bf and get to know him, maybe they will get to like him if they knew him better.

If they tell you to come home at a certain time make your bf bring you home at the agreed time then at least they can see you are both being responsible.

Most of all meet them half way. Good luck.

2006-10-01 09:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by lollipoppett2005 6 · 0 0

you r not too young to like guys, but you r pretty young to have a serious boy frd, and all the dramma that comes with it. I think @ 14 you should relax & take it easy and have fun with your frds both girls and boys. How old is this boy anyways?? Hope this guy don't get you pregnant, coz you r way to young to be a mom @ 14 hon.

2006-10-01 09:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

look at this from your parent's point of view. they care for you. and here's a fact. boys in puberty have there sex drive going crazy. i know from personal experience. they may just be interested in sex. if you REALLY must date this guy talk to your parents about it and have a serious conversation and find out there concerns and maybe, just maybe you'll see their side of it and see that your parents have some valid points that you didn't realize before. whatever you do, be careful. a teenage boy can act crazy due to hormones.

2006-10-01 09:59:13 · answer #9 · answered by Eli 2 · 0 0

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2006-10-01 09:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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