2006-10-01 02:42:51 · 5 answers · asked by sean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out and find someone and shag the hell out of them
2006-10-01 02:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by kibbles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound like you're only quite young so stop worrying about the girl thing and stop putting pressure on yourself. If you have family members who are dying, take your time to come to terms with that and how you will feel once they have gone.
Save the girl problems for later in your life. Don't give yourself any additional emotional strain. It might feel really bad at the moment but you'll get used to the difficult things in life by experiencing them.
Don't be affraid to cry, even if it means locking yourself in the bathroom to do it. It's not uncommon for soldiers to cry when they lose comrades in combat or do something they feel terrible about. The ones that don't cry often end up in psychiatric hospitals - medicated and crying all the time. So you should definitely not be affraid to cry.
It doesn't mean you're weak if you cry, it means you have feelings. Letting bad feelings out makes you stronger.
Lastly try to do as much to make yourself happy as possible and don't be affraid. Everything will be alright eventually but don't make any additional problems for yourself by getting in trouble with the police or turning to drink, drugs or anything else. If the family members that are dying are close relatives, make sure you tell them how you feel about them before they pass and don't be angry with them.
2006-10-01 10:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there. You will look back on this period in your life and figure out the blessings you are receiving, such as lessons learned, wisdom gained, etc. It will get better for you. Remember that really tough times are short phases in terms of a long lifetime. This is not making light of the deaths of anyone you are close to. I have two children who are terminally ill, so I can relate. You have to find a good perspective and find your own importance in life and feel good about yourself to keep yourself from going crazy. Perhaps focusing on helping to make your family more comfortable will comfort you some. As for girls, there is no reason to think that there isn't a right girl for you. She will come along when the time is right. Perhaps it is just not right now. Focus on your family.
2006-10-01 09:50:27 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you eating the best you can are you doing good things and being honest ? i am i got serious girl problems my friends aren dying or family all arround me but im doing good and i dont know why i have to have this broken heart cause of some girl acting like she knows so much fluffing arround with other guys im not doing that krap but shes blaming me cause shes doing krap i cant help that if your family is doing things that are bad for there health i would advise you not to join them love them but maybee you cant help being arround them cause you know you want to spend time with them you dont ever want to say to yourself you know i should have hanging arround with my family makes me sick when you git a good relation ship you will appreciate it just let that bad krap ride out im heart broken cause my gal pal i been seeing for like 2 years thinks its cute to play with all the boys and im getting really sick of it i enjoy talking to them but when they want to fool arround on me i have had enought i might be alone cause i hung up on them cause im sick of defending myself when i didnt do anything the only thing im guilty of is giving them to much loving and then they kick me in the face what good is that dont kill your self just yet go to the national forest restore your soul and you can find some places to camp for free and besides look forward to your next meal by yourself some chocolate because you deserve some good things leave an area in your yard for wild flowers for habitat and you will be suprised what amazing animals will show up in your yard i feel like crap too go for a walk or take the neibor dog for a strool hang in there man
2006-10-01 10:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by peter w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to someone who can help you, a school conselor or a pastor or someone who will listen to you and be there for you.
2006-10-01 09:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by 9929 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋