does anyone follow the 'rule' about no sex until the third date or is it just a 'rule' that was made up by easy girls?
2006-10-01 02:16:52 · 21 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's just one of those unwritten dating guide lines made up by women that got burned for giving it up too soon.
2006-10-01 03:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should know by the second date if you like this guy or not. If you don't don't see him for the third date.
As you get older you will find out that if you want the guy, you better do it by the 3rd date. In my world and I'm sure other guys are the same way. Think about this, A date normally cost a guy 100 bucks or more. Three or four of these dates and a guy has spent all of his extra money and is starting to dip into his food or rent money. So a guy has to set a limit some where. If a woman has not proven to a guy by the third date that she wants to keep him, normally she is just spending his money and he needs to dump this gold digger and move on.
Some women think a guy should prove him self to her and makes him spend so much money on them that he can't afford gas to get to work and back. You have to see it from both sides.
2006-10-01 02:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, if you go out with someone 3 times, but really don't like them much, then you are "allowed" to have sex - according to the "rule"? I don't understand that line of reasoning. Do girls honestly say "I never have sex until the 3rd date"? Sounds like a rule made up by girls to justify loose behavior.
Let's say that you know someone for 2 weeks and think they are just dandy. You have been on three dates, but really don't know them at all. Having sex with them doesn't make that any sort of smart decision.
2006-10-01 02:25:29 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lol why would that have been made up by "easy" girls? Easy girls put out on the first date and skip any rules. That rule was made up by prude girls who really wanted to get down to it, but didn't want to seem easy.
2006-10-01 02:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like easy girls. But then again, I like sex on the first date, second date, third date...
2006-10-01 02:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by âââEvil Medicâ⺠1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well some girls do it on the 1st date.. some girls dont even make it to the first date.... so i think thats just a rule that someone made up once upon a time....
best thing is to do it when YOUR ready!
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2006-10-01 02:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by d d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think even the third date is too soon that is if you want him to stick around,but if your only looking for sex yourself then i guess it doesn't really matter.but if your looking for something more make him wait,if he splits believe he would have anyway even if you had slept with him right away,when you give it up easy how in the hell do you get to know him,but like i said before if your only looking for sex yourself then it doesn't really matter,if your looking for more make him wait.then of course make it worth the wait.
2006-10-01 02:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by my space 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
3rd date nookie? What the hell? No I don't think there should be any guidelines. Have nookie whenever it feels right. Hell I did!
2006-10-01 02:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by bolddragon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just made up by easy girls i think if everything is right than go for it but if you have any doubts then hold off until you see fit and ready to.
2006-10-01 02:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by the truth 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋