I take pleasure in taking care of my man in and out of the bedroom! He is definitely worth it! Is this a bad thing?
2006-10-01 02:07:39 · 22 answers · asked by Qusan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes spoil him all you want...
keep him happy at home and he will stay at home, he will not want or need to mess around...
2006-10-01 02:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a guy's point of view, someone that wants to wait on me hand and foot seems needy and clingy, which could lead to you becoming annoying and disliked to the point he says goodbye.
If he wasn't in need of all of your help before you met, why do you think he needs it now? Also, he can take advantage of you, which is just as bad. Relationships are shared, not onsided with one person doing all of the giving.
If you think you have to wait on him hand and foot in order to "keep" him, you don't need him, he's just using you, and you can certainly find someone else out there.
2006-10-01 09:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only do this if you want to. this is the way it was done back in the old days. but now days women are human beings too,lol not robots. they dont have to obey men, they dont have to kiss their foot or anything else. so if y ou enjoy doing this, great. but just remember this is not required to make a man happy. being yourself and just give him a kiss should make him happy.
women are not slaves and should not be treated as one, and should be able to work. so good luck to ya and if its not a bad thing to you then no
2006-10-01 10:19:40 · answer #3 · answered by texasdaddy2009 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you want to spoil your man, but be careful. Some will repay you by walking all over you. I guess you'll just have to see how he treats you as time goes on. Good luck.
2006-10-01 09:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say its fine as long as he doesn't begin to think its your "duty" to take care of him. I made the decision to do the same and now mine gets pissy when I don't get his dinner to him on time or if I forget to set the coffee pot to go off before I leave for work every morning.
2006-10-01 09:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man deserves it and he is willing to go the extra mile in return the favor to you and you really love each other and want to please him then by all means go for it. Don't let him take advantage of the situation. A good relationship should be 50/50.
2006-10-01 09:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by bolddragon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a bad thing, as long as you are prepared to do this for the life of the relationship. DO NOT start something you cant finish
2006-10-01 09:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a two way street.
No, not hand and foot...but I feel it's nice to do things for someone who doesn't seem to expect you to do it. More like they appreciate it...and not that you are supposed to.
It really depends on how he responds to what you do for him.
2006-10-01 09:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by K . 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is not bad to love someone and want to please them. As long as he is just as busy doing the same for you. Real love is always measured by how balanced and reciprocal it is, not by how many sacrifices we can make to keep up the hope of it.
2006-10-01 09:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good thing,as long as it goes both ways!if not stop,because he will never appreciate it.
2006-10-01 09:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by scott s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋