If you loved a girl, but discovered later on that she wants a love relationship without sex, till marriage, which wont happen till few more years. What will your reaction be?
2006-10-01 02:02:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not asking for an advice .. i'm just asking for your personal opinions ..
2006-10-01 02:03:11 · update #1
I'LL JUST HANG AROUND AND SOONER OR LATER SOMETHING GOTTA GIVE!! GOOD THINGS ALWAYS HAPPENS TO THOSE WHO WAIT!! ESPECIALLY IF SHE WORTH WAITING FOR.
2006-10-01 02:06:29 · answer #1 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We , Hindus always wait until marriage. It's not a big deal. Me and my husband were in love for 15 years . We were live in same area , we went every where but we never had sex until marriage. DO you believe me? If you don't then your question is waste.
Waiting until marriage is great. And would be meaning full to love and your faith.
2006-10-01 09:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by mswathi1025 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends.
There are lots of reasons to have a relationship, and sex is only one of them. However, sex is not optional for males, so if she is not going to be your partner, she needs to understand that you will have sex partners while she is waiting for a legally binding commitment from you.
Marriage is about a lot of things, but sex is not really high on the list for women.
2006-10-01 09:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Grendle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww man if i were to wait for a girl like that . id have to fully trust that she wouldnt meet anyone else a year or a few months before you marry and have sex with him for some reason , imagine waiting really long and she goes and does something like that . just be careful and ask yourself is she really worth the wait ?
2006-10-01 09:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by some o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be glad, because that is what I want to do too. She should not be afraid of sex to the point where she will not touch me though. That would just make me feel weird. Have a nice day!
2006-10-01 09:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then you would not have sex until marriage. Maybe work on being a good future husband. If that is too much for you then leave and let her be. She doesn't wish to have fornication thrown on her. Respect!
2006-10-01 09:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by Spadesboffin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i was a guy(which i am not=p)i would probably wait for her if i respected and loved her a lot...!If not...i am afraid that she wouldn't be on my Christmas list...!!!=0)
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2006-10-01 09:25:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think her request is reasonable. Unless your religion prescribes otherwise, sex is an essential part of a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship for most people.
2006-10-01 09:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by disguys_dalimit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is like a can of pringles once you pop you can't stop. i would cheat because sex is a big part of any relationship, even if its once a month
2006-10-01 09:09:21 · answer #9 · answered by the truth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say hold on tight to that girl! she has enough respect for herself and her future husband to wait and give everything she can to that man. i'd also advise, be ready to face religion. in my life i've been able to recognize that most girls that save it are raised really religious homes or are quite religious themselve. what ever religion they are.
2006-10-01 09:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋