Can i trust this girl for finding a new man she says that she couldn't handle the loneliness. On the other hand i left her 6 months ago. I feel terrible about it and ive just realised what she means that I’m emotionally selfish.I left her when I was having anxiety facing joining the real world after being sick for a long time. (didn't want to leave the house, sleep with her or be loving) I did panic but I wasn't bad to her i just got caught up in my self. I've been giving her excuses recently rather than saying I was sorry. After i found out she was with another guy i gave out to her over txts and she asked if we had a chance. I said no but then turned and started begging. She says she still loves and misses me but she has a wall up now. She is still thinking about it and wants to meet as friends. The more woosie ive been the further she seems, its like she keeps hiding her emotions. I don’t know how girls feel when this scorned or what to do? I didnt deal with any emotions until now.
2006-10-01 01:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by neil1427a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me tell you.. Having relationship called LOVE is not just one way.. You have to show her that you love her too..
Honestly, if I am the one, I will never come back to you no matter how much I love you. Id rather sacrifice rather than be hurt at all.
It hurts for us when we love someone, they dont love us iin return.. If Man cannot love us or give some affection, at least appreciate the things we do.
Now in your case, i wish you tell her what is your problem, so she understand and not expect anything to you.
You cannot blame her for finding someone, who will love her and make her happy, despite the fact that she still loves you.
And if you really love her, you need accept her and love her that way she did it for you.
2006-10-01 02:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women can be all over the place with their emotions and they need someone to be emotionally stable. Relationships are frustrating and take work. Just relax a little. If you want to try it, go for it, but go for it completely. Maintain a long term focus in terms of not getting caught up in the daily ups and downs of the relationship because they will be there. Enjoy the ups, deal with the downs ASAP and teach yourself not to dwell on them. Good luck.
2006-10-01 02:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need work and you need to work on your problems and issues without bringing her or anyone other than a therapist into the circle.
2006-10-01 01:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u both really REALLY do love each other then u will find a way to make it work.
2006-10-01 02:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Bellatrix/Jimmypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋