What are good ways to make her feel good without spending tons of money ?
What are fun dates ?
If you know he doesnt have much money left over is that a turn off ?
2006-10-01 00:38:07 · 18 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If the girl really loves you, she will accept you for who you are. This includes financially.
2006-10-01 00:41:25 · answer #1 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women just want to hang out. If you live anywhere near a beach take her for a walk there. That's romantic and free. Rent a couple of movies. That's cheap. Take her to a local park after dark and have a candlelight picnic. There are a lot of things that you can do that are next to nothing in cost. Not all women are looking for a man with money, they might just want a man with love to give. If you look you will find that special someone. As far as leftovers go, if she comes over for dinner she will never know they are leftovers, have it ready before she gets there. I congratulate you on being a single dad. Your sound like a great man and any woman would be lucky to have you, good luck.
2006-10-01 07:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dcham81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of the best dates I have ever been one's that cost little to nothing.
Drinking a glass of wine watching the sunset. While talking and getting to know one another.
Rent a funny movie, pop up some popcorn and get cozy on the couch..(The 40 year old Virgin is hilarious)
A hike in a nearby nature center. Followed by a picnic lunch. (packed in an ice cooler in you car during the hike)
Make a meal together. Even if it's just hot dogs or hamburgers.
Depending on where you live some communities have museums and art exhibits that are free.
Being attracted to someone and wanting to spend time with them doesn't have anything to do with how much money they have to spend on you.
A flower cut from your own garden is just as nice as an expensive bouquet.
Hone up on your social skills and manners that is much more impressive than anything money can buy...
I hope you find happiness and peace......
2006-10-01 07:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find a woman who understands where you're coming from. You're best bet would be a single mom. Like me, I understand when a guy doesn't have much money since I support two little ones on my own, I know how cash can be so limited. I don't "require" a man to spend a lot of money on me. Actually, I prefer if they don't. To me, a guy would make me feel so special with little things. A quiet dinner without the kids (even if it's just pizza) or a nice moonlight walk. Romantic stuff that takes thought.
2006-10-01 07:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite her for dinner and a movie at your house. Or a long walk on the beach, or a Sunday stroll in the park. If you are upfront with her about not being able to spend a bunch of money because of being a single dad she will understand and she should be willing to accept the fact. If she isn't then move on she isn't the girl for you. Good luck!!
2006-10-01 08:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by bellslady65 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walks. Make her favorite dinner without the kids if possible. Dont make her do the dishes. ha ha. Rent a movie you both would enjoy. Pack a lunch and go to a lake or any where thats relaxing.Let her know right off that your last name isnt Rockeffler (sp).I have faith in women that not all of them are money hungry.Let her have some input. Who knows you may meet a lady that has money to burn,dont let pride get in the way.
2006-10-01 08:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time and effort always out rank money. Walking is free and is good for you, how nice is it to actually go out and pick your own bouquet of flowers. Ice skating in the park is free, so is curling up on the couch and watching the news or your favourite TV show. I find guys with less money make more of an effort because they have to be more creative. I'd rather be showered in time and attention over money anyday of the week and twice on Sundays.
2006-10-01 07:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a suggestion to add to those you've already received---check for community events (fall festivals, block parties, ethnic celebrations, etc.) within easy commute. There's often free entertainment at these events, lots to look at (great for people watching) and the food always tastes better in that environment.
Also, you are going to get a better idea of your date's personality than if you do the traditional dinner and a movie thing.
Good luck and have some fun!
2006-10-01 07:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like someone and they like you back, money shouldn't matter. You shouldn't need to tell her how much money you do or don't have, and if she asks, that's probably a good inclination that she isn't worth your time.
Possible fun dates:
discount movie theaters if you have those where you are.
going to the park, playing games, playing outside games (if you have two tennis rackets and some tennis balls go play tennis),
setting up a blanket at night and looking at the stars (you could always bring cheap wine, or set up a cheap picnic.)
Going ice skating, or rollerblading.
It just depends on what you and she like to do.
There are a lot of cheap things you can do based on your interests.
2006-10-01 07:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by anabele6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of things to do for fun that does not cost that much.
A picnic at the park. A walk in the country. A single rose. A letter.
A phone call just to tell her you are thinking about her.
I look at what is inside the man, not what is in his wallet.
2006-10-01 07:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by angelblueeyes618 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women always love money. Try to keep that on the down low... And if it is mentioned, be honest with her. In your defense, say something like "money is tight right now," "we're budgetting," etc.
Fun dates = home-cooked dinner, walk to the park, star-gazing (chick really dig that, alsoa a good opportunity to pull off a good line like "out of the many diamonds in the sky, my favorite are your pair of eyes," or something like that..).
2006-10-01 07:44:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋