Can i trust this girl for finding a new man she says that she couldn't handle the loneliness. On the other hand i left her 6 months ago. I feel terrible about it and i've just realised what she means that I’m emotionally selfish. I left her when I was having anxiety facing joining the real world after being sick for a long time. (didn't want to leave the house, sleep with her or be loving) I did panic but I wasn't bad to her i just got caught up in my self. I've been giving her excuses recently rather than saying I was sorry. After i found out she was with another guy i gave out to her over txts and she asked if we had a chance. I said no but then turned and started begging. She says she still loves and misses me but she has a wall up now. She is still thinking about it and wants to meet as friends. I don't know if i should be angry or excepting of what i did? Or how to get her back? What are girls thinking in this situation?
2006-10-01 00:15:22 · 6 answers · asked by neil1427a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you really screwed up and shouldn't blame this girl for anything that she has done. Why would you expect her to wait for you after you left her? It sounds as if you are still being selfish to think she should have stopped her life after you are the one that left. She didn't date for six months, that says something. If you really want her back, it does sound as if you have a chance. Get yourself into counseling so you can learn better tools of dealing with things in the future. Let her know your intentions and if she is still willing then you are the one that's going to have to do all the work. You left her, she needs time to see that she can trust that you won't do that to her again, and to feel that you are going to be there for her as a caring/supportive partner. Good Luck!
2006-10-01 00:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say, just learn from this situation and move on. You could spend years trying to "win" her back with no results.
2006-10-01 07:21:27 · answer #2 · answered by Landslide 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have said sorry for your your attitudes long back. but now do as she wants if you want her back. may be one day the Wall may break.
2006-10-01 07:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what girls are thinking in these situations. They are thinking, "Why is this guy such a homo?"
2006-10-01 07:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by stevehokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve fu-cked her up... now shes trying to string you along. tell her to get lost. period, dont look back, or youll be hurting her more.
2006-10-01 07:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno
2006-10-01 07:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋