I'm the type of girl who's really shy, I hardly know the guy but I wanna at least get his name...What should I do?
I see him everyday but each time I see the guy...it's no longer than a seconds glance.
I know people who think I'm useless and stupid, but I just don't know what to do since I'm useless when it comes to crushes...People must be thinking the same thing that I've been thinking..." How could you have crush on a guy that hardly notices you, know you, talk to you or know anything about him?"
He pays me no attention no matter how hard I try to get him to notice me, he get's on the same bus home on Friday's, and he's really cool looking!
I dunno what to say but whenever in class we have group discussions or group presentations I would normally be really quiet, I don't take part in class conversations or debates, I have no self confidence in me when it comes to presenting work, sumbody help a girl in crisis (Please!!!)
2006-10-01 00:12:44 · 9 answers · asked by saiyuki c 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Hey there,
well, getting a guys attention doesn't necessarily mean you need to throw yourself at him. You could start by doing something small. like when he gets onto your bus on Fridays ask him something small like "hey, can i borrow an eraser?" or "do you know what time it is?" If you're scared or worried, try to push yourself. End the sentence with a sweet smile and 'thanks'. If he really is as cool as you say he is, then he should smile back. That way he'll recognise you. Next time you could ask him something else, maybe he'll even start a conversation with you. Next time you have class discussion, reasearch your topic and come up with a really cool answer that will make people think "hey, this girl knows what she's doing." That will also get his attention. You might worry that people are constantly looking at you, or think differently of you, but in reality people aren't really that concerned with other's faults. You just need to find a way to boost your confidence. Practise your public speaking, find an activity that gets you involved with other people Etc.
Good luck! i hope my answer was of some help. =]
2006-10-01 00:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by chestnut 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, get ahold of yourself and start thinking better of yourself. Please give yourself some positive self talk--google affirmations--and do it several times a day!! You have to start speaking up and have an opinion. I'm sure you have some, your writing seems fairly intelligent and everyone has some strengths!! Reflect on this and come up with something!! Are you the girl with the big brown eyes, do you hold the door open for people, are you interested in Greenpeace, dolphins, horses, cats, what do you like? Do you wear vintage clothing or jewery, can you buy a push-up bra at Victoria's Secret, do you run or work out? Start reading the newspaper everyday and figure out some opinions on your own , at least speak up and say something--he doesn't notice you cuz you are making yourself invisible!! go to Merle Norman get a free makeover get your teeth whitened--Crest Whitestrips are good--and flash him a smile, wink, do something!!! You have to get over this shyness, girl and you can. He's just a guy, not a god, and maybe he's shy too. At least say Hi to him and ask him what he thinks about your mutual class. Good luck!!!!!
2006-10-01 00:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by bookluffer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by noticing yourself, then others will crush on you. If you think you're shy and clumsy, that's what will show on your face for others to see. If you're desperate for a guy, all he'll see is a desperate girl and will never give her a second look. Focus your energy on being yourself, cause then the people that come to you will come for who you really are, and that is true Love, the rest is just an illusion that doesnt worth your time.
Nobody will give you what you need but yourself.
If you don't go within, you go without.
It is always all up to you! ;-)
2006-10-01 00:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Iseult5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are fairly superficial like most of us. You are fixated on this dude merely because you think he is good looking. Hello. That is not a basis for a relationship. But if you would like to see if there is more potential, good luck to you. However faint heart never won fair prince. Most blokes have fairly simple direct minds compared to females. Therefore I suggest that you do not try to get too complicated or over analyse things. If you can summon the courage, just tell him what's on your mind. The worst that can happen is that you will be rejected. But take it from someone who has a lifetime of rejections. You survive them. Eventually, they even make you a stronger person. Good luck.
2006-10-01 00:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by hughgo-a-go-go 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude for genuine why do you care lots approximately labeling your self? Who cares once you're gay, immediately, bi, or some thing in between? it is not available to label sexuality, because of the fact it flows. it is distinctive for each guy or woman, and doubtless this could be the only guy you ever like, yet for now, only bypass with it, do what feels real, and end annoying in regards to the effects.
2016-10-18 07:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look around you. Chances are some other cute guy is passing you by thinking how do i get her attention. Please dont pour all your attention into one guy who might not be interested and miss all the other guys who darent say hi. If you do want to get his attention then at least do something and get out with him or move on. best of luck. x
2006-10-01 00:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by rob e 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid there's not much that a bunch of strangers will be able to do for you. It's completely up to you whether or not you want to talk to this guy. What can we say to make any difference? Go ahead and talk to him? If you aren't willing to make a change in your behavior, there's no point in asking us.
2006-10-01 00:15:44 · answer #7 · answered by iswd1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get him to notice you, next time you see him smile and say "Hi Im Saiyuki, whats your name?" Take a little chance and it might work!
2006-10-01 00:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he popular in school?does not matter.join any extra currricular
activity he is in,then join in,boldly, a group of popular girls.hang
out with them.he is sure 2 take notice.goodluck.
2006-10-01 00:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by indru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋