YESTERDAY I WENT TO CHURCH AND I ME T THIS VERYVERY HANDSOME GUY AND WE CLCKED JUST LIKE THAT AND WE JUST SPENT THE WHOLE DAY TOGETHER AND HE EVEN WALKED ME HOME; THING IS I THINK I LIKE HIM & I HAVE A GOOD FEELING THAT HE DOES TOO BUT C I AM NOT SURE WETHER TO CALL FIRST OR TO WAIT FOR HIM TO CALL; BUT ALSO I THINK THAT HE IS QUITE A SHY KINDA GUY AND MAYBE HE MAY NOT BE ABLE TO, SO WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK
2006-09-30 23:49:31 · 20 answers · asked by dobby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him an opportunity to call. Slow down. When you are around him, be subtle but direct. Let him know that you enjoy his company and you would be interested in seeing more of him. Do this by the smiles, laughter, and comments like, "I haven't had this much fun since...." He'll get the hint and will recognize his cue.
God called women to be help-mete to man. Many women claim that they can't find their husband because they are not realizing that they are running them off. The Bible says, "He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing and obtains favor of the Lord." Wait to be found. Pushing yourself on a man is unattractive to most "Godly" men.
Take this time and pray.
BTW-STOP YELLING AT US. YOU ARE TOO EXCITED.
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2006-09-30 23:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know the other guys, but I like women with some courage, Why to wait always for us to do the 1st move? Darling if he spent the whole day with you he most likes, Who spend the whole day with someone you don't like? Well except at work. Don/t worry making the 1st move, besides I believe that the church is a great place to meet people, it wasn't in a pub, so he can't be a bad person after all. Don't miss an opportunity that can be the "bingo" of your life. Good luck!
2006-09-30 23:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
CALL HIM! I bet you he is sat there thinking of a reason to call you without seeming forward or to come on'ish. If you need a reason make something up i.e. "did i have a coat on when i left church because i cant find it now and not sure if i wore one? never mind, it will turn up." or something like and then ask him how he enjoyed yesterday. Would he like another day like that and then tell him how much you enjoyed it. Keep it light but def arrange another meeting. Best of luck. x
2006-09-30 23:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by rob e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bite the bullet and take a chance. Lifes short Get the ball rolling.
He must like you or he wouldnt have spent the whole day with you
Have fun and Good luck.
2006-09-30 23:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by rubyflats 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if you like him then you should call him nothing gives a shy guy more confidence then a girl that likes him and will chase him down to go out with him and hay you always regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did
2006-09-30 23:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by woot!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't call you by next week, and you see him at church, tell him you enjoyed the time you spent together, and invite him to go out to lunch.
2006-09-30 23:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It shouldnt matter WHO makes the call!! Go 4 it ! Telling or showing some1 how you feel is NEVER a bad thing!
2006-09-30 23:51:50 · answer #7 · answered by groggro 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
take things slow,you'll see him again and go to him and talk some more put yourself out there but get to know him,then if you get the feeling he likes you ,ask him out,you dont have to wait for the guy,he might be shy.
2006-09-30 23:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by myke4urnot 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call him instead of asking us. You would be a little further on down the road by now.
2006-09-30 23:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Invite him to lunch after church?(assuming it's in the morning)
2006-09-30 23:53:44 · answer #10 · answered by keoni_21 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋