Can i trust this girl for finding a new man she says that she couldn't handle the loneliness. On the other hand i left her 6 months ago. I feel terrible about it and i've just realised what she means that I’m emotionally selfish. I left her when I was having anxiety facing joining the real world after being sick for a long time. (didn't want to leave the house, sleep with her or be loving) I did panic but I wasn't bad to her i just got caught up in my self. I've been giving her excuses recently rather than saying I was sorry. After i found out she was with another guy i gave out to her over txts and she asked if we had a chance. I said no but then turned and started begging. She says she still loves and misses me but she has a wall up now. She is still thinking about it and wants to meet as friends. I don't know if i should be angry or excepting of what i did? Or how to get her back? What are girls thinking in this situation?
2006-09-30 23:46:50 · 3 answers · asked by neil1427a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We all make choices in life that cause us anxiety at times. If she is seeing someone else, you have to let her make the decision. If you can handle seeing her and letting her make the choice between you and him, I would say sure meet her as friends. That way you will see if you just miss her because you are lonely or miss her as a person. You both can re-evaluate your feelings. When we get hurt it is natural for us to put up walls and it takes a while to take them back down. Take the time to become her friend again and see where it may lead, but do not make her choose between you or him. She may not forgive you for that. I will keep my fingers crossed for you.
2006-09-30 23:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you have to do whatever it takes to win back her trust.
Good luck!
2006-10-01 06:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her you should
2006-10-01 06:52:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋