He keeps on begging me to forgive him. I not sure if he's going to change, What do you think?
2006-09-30 23:39:09 · 17 answers · asked by Sullita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok what's your number? jk lol
2006-09-30 23:42:38 · update #1
No.
You knoe what he was thinking about you when he decided to be with the other girl? His actions literally said you can go to hell... he comes first.
it's a huge gamble on ur part if u take him back.
Betrayers seldom change.
2006-09-30 23:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question for you is: Will you be able to trust him again? Will you be wondering where he is at when he says he is at his friends house. If you would be wondering, I would go on. You said cheats, plural, I would definitely go on. From experience, once a cheater, always a cheater. I have had many cheat on me. Tell me the cell phone was in the brothers van, when the vehicle was not a van at all, etc. I would find someone who will respect you and be honest with you from the get go. You deserve much much more.
2006-09-30 23:46:00 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The writing is on the Wall, you only need to read it. Your boyfriend cannot be trusted, he cheated on you. You have caught him this time but there is no proof this is his first indiscretion. You deserve to have someone who loves you enough to be faithful through thick and thin. Obviously he has little self control and has little regard for your feelings.
2006-09-30 23:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by easinclair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously break up with him. Once a cheater,always a cheater & if you can't figure this out then you deserve what's coming to you when he cheats again (and he will).
2006-09-30 23:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by kathy o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i believe in second chances. if you still love him, give him a second chance. if you just wanna forgive him cos you pity him, forget it. and if he cheats on you again, i suggest you kick him out of your life without a second thought
2006-09-30 23:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by throughmyeyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did the dirty on you, so the trust has gone, if you forgive him it's like telling him what he did was ok.
2006-09-30 23:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope don't give him another chanch! If he REALLY cared about you he would not have done it...He will jump on the next girl that catches his eye.. He can only use and abuse you if you let him......
2006-09-30 23:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I great predictor of future behavior is looking at past behavior. If he does it once chances are he will do it again
2006-09-30 23:43:41 · answer #8 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who did he cheat with?
If you get even it will be easier to forgive I can help just give me a call!!!
2006-09-30 23:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by simon1840i 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
absolutely not! in my experience they never stop at the first time! save yourself the time and pain, and look for someone who is worth it! good luck sweetie!
2006-09-30 23:42:49 · answer #10 · answered by sexyfairy4u79 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋