Well, we met up for drinks and live music middle of last week. He had actually given me a choice of activities to do on our "date" and even offered to cook for me. After the evening he walked me home (linked arms!) and stayed till about 3am. Nothing happened we just talked, listened to music etc. I wasn't feeling great, too much alcohol on an empty stomach and he was very sweet about it. Texted him the next day to say thank you - he replied within 10 mins and since then nothing. I am not really expecting anything till next week, but a little advice on whether you think he is interested would be good and when to expect a text or a next date. Shld i be worried! Therfore questions:-
1) Does the fact he came over and stayed so late show interest even though he didnt hit on me?
2) Do I need to do anything?
3) How long do guys normally take to ask a girl out on a second date?
4) Do you think he knows i like him?
Thanx
2006-09-30 23:11:34 · 27 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in answer to your questions
i just texted thank you for lovely evening and that i had a great time
he texted back saying his hangover was bad and that 3 coffess later his head still hurt and wished me a good weekend
so i texted back u2
nothing exciting!
2006-10-01 00:47:45 · update #1
Text him, just to say hi! That will break the ice!
2006-09-30 23:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Yes, I would say so (though you'd need to know more about what kind of guy he is to know for sure it wasn't just in the hope of getting sex)
2) Hold out as long as you can, but if you still hear nothing by a couple of weeks after your date, and you still really wanted to see him, you could just text him to meet for coffee, do something specific together or for a pre dinner drink (for the latter though, just make sure you have a girlfiend or whatever to go on to dinner with after so that he doesn't feel you're coming on too strong). There's no harm in any of that because that's the norm for a budding friendship anyway, even when there is no possibility of a future relationship.
3) that totally depends on the guy and how busy his diary already was, but I would start to have doubts after about 10 days.
4) he should do, unless he's totally shy or insecure.
2006-09-30 23:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by Quilps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:48:02 · answer #3 · answered by durrett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you both had a good time. Now is not the time to "worry" or be concerned if he doesn't contact you soon - guys just think differently than we do. 1. Great that he showed interest in you - respected you. 2. Just go on with your regular life and be happy - if he calls, it's a bonus 3. Guys honestly take a week or two - doesn't mean they aren't interested 4. He probably knows - you seemed to get along.
2006-09-30 23:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a dilemma. However sugar, if a man followed you home, talked and listened to you till 3am in the morning and somehow managed not to HIT on you, he definitely likes you. he could be thinking the same way you're thinking. he might even be thinking you think he's a pinhead because he didn't hit on you. the only way to solve your dilemma and get back to regular sleep is wait a week and if nothing happens call him and have a heart to heart with him. get it off your mind. you'll be surprised to find out he wants to do the same. good luck!
2006-10-01 00:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by brownsugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry too much. If he likes you, he will most probably give you a call.
But if he likes you and is the passive type, CALL him for a date. That doesn't call anything but if lucky ... lead somewhere. You never know!!!
Meeting and talking to him once can't tell much. Definitely he doesn't mind you otherwise he wouldn't stay till 3 am. He definitely sounds a nice guy without jumping on you when you were drunk. Good luck.
2006-09-30 23:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the sounds of what your saying you have a very rair thing... it's called old school romance...he 100% respects you and won't pressure you in any which way. he'll never make you do anything you don't want to.. that's why he's not text you! (have you text him ?)text him and ask how he is and what his plans are over the next few days and you may find he'll suggest about meeting you ... but if he doesn't you'll have too. he's just giving you the space your entitled to(could be he's scared of losing you if he appears too pushy..) go girl and enjoy yourself. he's only being a gent
2006-10-01 00:40:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Not all man like to hit on girls if given opportunities.
2. Depends. if you are the brave type, you can just ask him out! Worst scenario is you may b turned down.
3. If guy really like a girl, he's not going to waste any time... There is something holding him back.
4. You can try to give hints.
2006-09-30 23:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Delphi p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was bothered about you and so walked with you to your home and stayed with you till 3am. but that does not prove anything. give this thought some more time. you don't have to think much about this. may be he is also in a dilemma so give him some time too. and if nothing happens move forward there will be many more relations coming your way.
2006-09-30 23:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just calm down.
You know how most guys operate. They like to take time before getting back to you for a second date.
Yes, he knows you like him.
Yes, he's interested that's why he didn't "hit on you".
No, don't do anything.
As far as the time between first date and asking for a second date - I'd say four to five days.
Be patient. You'll hear from him again...
2006-09-30 23:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, definitely just from the quick response of his text
2. Stay calm, and let him do the chasing if it's meant to be he'll call, if not it's his loss and he wasn't worth it anyway
3. About a week usually, but longer if he is planning things for you to do again
4. He's probably as confused as you are.
Hope everything works out OK
2006-09-30 23:15:17 · answer #11 · answered by stokegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋