to participate in a threesome with them. I openly flirt with his girlfriend and joke about sex with them. They often openly discuss their sexual habits and it is only a matter of time before they offer me to participate. No doubt I will, but I feel like I might have a bad impact on their relationship. What do you think. I would like opinions but don't try to stop me, It wont work
2006-09-30 22:23:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For the people worried about the types of sti's or stds etc I will be using protection, its not like i'm going to go rampant and worry about the consequences later. And no anal thankyou whoever said it, that is gross. Also, i am not interested in my best friend that way. It is just an experiment to see how it feels. I don't think it will affect my friendships with them but I was only worried about them making the wrong decision and regreting it later.
2006-10-01 00:32:37 · update #1
why ruin a good friendship
2006-09-30 22:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't mind a girlfriend that is a freak in bed. But a guy that you know who has a girlfriend that you flirt with. I would just say thank you but no. Something like that can really blow-up in your face and really put you in a postion that most people will run from. I say leave that concept totally alone. But as far as I am concern flirting with my friend girlfriend is a real no no. So to even think of such a thing tells me you are not right in the head.
2006-10-01 05:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there, done that. My advise is to not initiate anything. If you 3 get started and you do something that wasn't expected, he may get jealous or she may be surprised. They have probably had some pillow talk about this but don't have a plan and probably won't feel comfortable discussing it. If you play it cool and let him direct you to what he would like, it will work out best. Don't worry about crossing swords. It won't make you gay.
2006-10-01 05:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are into it and they invite you go for it. If they are stable enough in their relationship to invite you into a threesome, they are good. It'll be something they can share for a memory. It is you who would probably feel awkward later when you are around them. I couldn't do the 2 guy and a girl thing, but if you are into it I say go for it!
2006-10-01 05:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by rswdew 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with them seriously, not just jokingly before you do it. Discuss all your concerns. You've already made up your mind so your just wanting reassurance. Discuss it with them and not just as a couple. Talk to your friend alone and maybe the girl alone too. If your are just looking for some one to tell you its OK, it is, so there you go.
2006-10-01 05:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by tenaciousd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful whatcha wish 4 , brudda!! This might be the begining of such things as ....painful urination , oozing sores , etc. . Its not worth it . Get your own honey. There are too many bad things out there to sleep around. That what fantasies are for! If ya do , play it safe , man. .... O , & send me a copy of the video!
2006-10-01 05:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by groggro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to stop you but just make sure you are ready to handle the consequences after you all are done with the threesome
2006-10-01 05:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, you to know that 2 guy and 1 girl in the bed mean that the 2 guys go plug-n-play together sometime, no? You to be cool with dat? Go for it!! The girl will love it!
2006-10-01 05:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur ryt u could screw up their relationship & end up bieng the bad person without a frend, watchu gon du then? Hope u've thort about this before u & ur 1 eyed got xcited & unstoppable. U've already made up your mind so go ahead! Are u that despirate 4 sum A## that u'd wanna sleep wit ur boy's girl! Bra get ur own & hav a3sum witchu & her cuzin!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 05:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Darksword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck...
If you have already decided then there is no point in telling anything that may stop you..
But it is for sure it is going to affect the overall health of your friendship with them and their relationship too..
2006-10-01 05:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, live it to the full, no ties no commitment and you get to do things you would never dream of doing alone. You will regret it of you do not do this. Whilst at, try for anal she is obviously up for it, and form the sound of it is he!
2006-10-01 05:26:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋