Say a 15 year old dated a 54 year old man does that make her a slught? and what if the girl really loved him b- cuz she did and now that there broke up she thinks about him constanthl please i need help
2006-09-30 22:13:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No but it does make him a child rapist
2006-09-30 22:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by saturn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make her a slut, but she should ask herself, what on earth could a 15 year old have in common with a 54 old guy? and more importantly, how could a 54 year old guy even consider dating a girl that could be the same age as his granddaughter. I would advise that girl to be very careful of pedophiles.
2006-09-30 22:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by natashabo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 and 54....that's not right. The 54 could go to jail. Stop thinking of him right now and start thinking of boys your own age, no one over say 16 1/2. Even 17 could be too old. And don't give into sex. You're wayyyy to young. Save yourself for someone who'll love you for life. Wait till you're at least in college.
2006-09-30 22:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by babbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is wrong, no matter how much you love him. Your most likely being played, and if you've had any type of sexual encounters. That's illegal, let him be. There someone out there for you, your own age. And even though you probably won't like my answer, it's true. Think of it like this, say when he's 74 you'll be 35 do you really want to be with a old man that you'll have to change his bed pan everyday he'll be like a kid. changing his diapers and you won't have any time for your friends. Let it go now before it gets worse. It's for your own good.
2006-09-30 22:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by advice_lady101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you really love him, you will leave him alone. He could go to jail because of your involvement. Would you want that for him? Do nothing else physically with anyone until you are of age (18). Then there will be no punishments regardless of the other persons' age, providing theirs is also above 18. And no, I do not think of you as a slut, I think of HIM as a child molester.
2006-09-30 22:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by H2Ocolors 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that girl, even you, were 18 or over I would say there is nothing wrong with it. Personally I am attracted to older men, and I don't think it is wrong.
About how to get over something like that I don't know. I'm struggling with getting over a crush that I had.
But good luck.
Do something you really like, like a sport, or go shopping with your firends, it will get your mind off of it.
2006-09-30 22:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a seriously skewed idea of love, young lady...
That doesn't make you a s|ut, per se, but if word got out that you did that, it could really ruin your reputation and you'd be seen to most guys as "easy" or "bait."
And on a side note, that guy should get testicles removed with a power saw. That's just sick and he knows it.
2006-09-30 22:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, why not???? as long as u're into the man's soul, it doesn't matter.......well, if the relationship isn't working out,then the girl should move on in life n' keep searching for the right one.....i know she's deeply being hurt but love when ends up in the negative way, it is always like that......occupy her time n' space with fun activities n' family gatherings.....talk to people whom she trusts n' solve the problem......sure, she can still think of him but when time passes, she'll be ok.....good luck!!!
2006-09-30 22:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you're not a slut just a poor judge of character. He took advantage of you and that is disgusting... he should have known better. Now you care about him too much. Don't worry too much hun. Allow yourself some time to heal. When it's over you will be again ready to date.
2006-09-30 22:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stick with your own age kid. Your not a slut. Let me put it this way..when your 21 he will be 60 old and whithered...you want something saggy or something nice and tight and could keep up with you.
2006-09-30 22:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by antonettef28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though cases are recorded about this type of relations... it is advisable to go for the same age group... Try to forget him...
2006-09-30 22:41:34 · answer #11 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋