Serious answers only please. Okay I have been on bc for over 2months now so it should be in full effect and I know the risks of not using condoms and so on, plus my bf and I were both virgins before eachother so no worrys about stds and such. But my question is I've been thinking about not using a condom and letting him *** inside me. What I want to know is does it feel a lot better than using a condom? Or not really much different? I'm assuming it feels better but I was wanting some advice from people who have done it. Thanks!
2006-09-30 21:38:16 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think pull and pray is where you don't use a condom and have him pull out before he cums. Then pray you don't get pregnant from the precum.
2006-09-30 21:57:55 · update #1
It feels better.
2006-09-30 21:41:22 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Certainly it is a altogether different and exciting to receive him / his without condom. Here are the reasons:
(1)His can provide a greate stimulation to inside nerves when inserted without condom because of its shape and curves which is not possible with condom
(2)I am not sure that this is true with all the gals but some gals have told me that it is very exciting experience to receive hot sperm inside, this is again not possible with condom.
Based on my personal experience i can say a couple can enjoy sex without condoms or anything else. But a guy should take responsibility of it.
Since last 10 years i have never used condoms or any other contraceptives.
What i am doing are:
(1) I spend sufficient time in forplay, I ensure that I make her almost begging for me before I enters her.
(2) Once she is sufficiently hot I enter her and controls the movement. I start with slow thrusts. I also ensure that I pull my forskin and then i insert it inside and keep my movement as slow as possible.
(3) In couple of minutes I find movements from her side. Here i have to make sure that she constantly feels my hardness and at the same time my forskin is not pulled back completely so that my sensitive nerves gets protection. This does not mean that i am deprived of the pleasure.
(4) Thereafter all she needs is two/three strong thrusts and she reaches the orgasm. And you are still inside without cumming.
(5) Now it is my turn. After she retires I am free to perform any position, any other experiments that I wish.
(6) At last I prefer to *** either on her face (if she invites) or on her breasts, or on her neval.
This is safe game. It is possible that others may have different experience. But I have been doing it safely since last ten years and i have not doubt about its effectiveness.
You are right precum liquid can not conceive you.. So dont worry about it.. It has another role to play... it is meant to clear our urinary track so that the sperm can pass through the penis without getting demaged by uric acid...
2006-09-30 22:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your 3rd responder. BC is not 100% affective I know the first time I had sex without a condom and on BC I got pregnant and had my son 10 days after my 16th b-day. And to make things worse he was premature by 3mo and do you think the dad and I are still together? NO! So I would say don't try it! It feels good but not as great as when you don't have to worry about getting pregnant or STDs from an unfaithful guy! You get what I'm saying? I enjoy sex much more with my fiance' now then even when we were just dating because when we stopped using condoms I still wasn't sure of him being faithful and I was afraid of getting pregnant even on BC! Oh and 2mo isn't long at all your body isn't even totally absorbing it yet, being responsible enough to have sex means being responsible enough to do it safely?
2006-09-30 21:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by EriksSweetheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can i first say well done to both of you for your careful planning of your sexual relationship, not something we see a lot of these days and nice to hear of people that still think about contraception and std`s. That aside sex can be nice with or without, there are so many condoms on the market now that do so many different things, ribbed ones etc and things like that, so using all different kinds of condoms can be fun and interesting. Without is a whole different feeling though and is it better? well that's personal choice and different for everyone.. You know that not using a condom even with contraception in place there is still a risk no matter how small that you can still fall pregnant, so please bear that in mind. Experiment and have fun.
2006-09-30 21:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well having sex without a condom can cause you to get pregnant.
Yes you do feel less with a condom, but there are different types of condoms out there.There are ones that are ultra thin that make it feel more like your not feeling the condom. There are warming gels that can help feel more too.
Not using a condom and using noxyl 9 spermicide is not a proper method of Birthcontrol. You still can get pregnant. I suggest not letting him xxxx inside you. Use a condom, and maybe get yourself on the Birth control pill.
I hope I've helped you.
2006-09-30 21:45:36 · answer #5 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the most obvious advice is to make sure you take your pill EVERY day. As for pleasure yea it should feel better for you cause its skin on skin and the latex takes that away. for the guy ti will deff feel better... the sex might be a little shorter till he gets used to it at first? goin from usin a condom to no condom can be pretty huge diff for a guy. If you are goin through the trouble of takin the pill everyday then you mine as well not use a condom.
2006-09-30 21:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a male yes it feels better without condom specially feeling ur juices . With condom so many natural sensations are out only the rest is there.
2006-09-30 21:41:52 · answer #7 · answered by guptaskgupta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like eating a steak with a balloon on your tounge. However, since he knows nothing other than sex with a condom, don't be surprised if it's over really fast. Don't get discouraged though. If he's any kind of a man he'll be reloaded after about 20 minutes or so.
2006-10-01 02:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels better, but at your age, it is not worth the risk. Stay with the condoms until you are old enough to deal with the consequences of having a baby.
2006-09-30 21:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by astral 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does feel 100 times better. However, my BF and I have always used the "pull and pray" method when we go without a condom.
2006-09-30 21:41:11 · answer #10 · answered by Meg 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is extremely better than using a condom. But honey you and he have to make sure it is what you both want to do that is, having sex without condoms
2006-09-30 21:41:53 · answer #11 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋